Butterflies and Bravery is a podcast created and hosted by two cult Survivors and best friends who were born into the notorious Children of God cult. Listen as Whisper and Jemima tell their stories of turning surviving into thriving, interview other Survivors, and straight talk all things cult, trauma, and religion recovery. Our episodes are guest-led, so anything can happen! Our conversations are real, raw and often NSFW. They may be triggering. But they will thrill and inspire you and give ...
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Brandon and Avery drink whiskey and talk about interesting science, technology, and all around miscellaneous concepts.
They say if your dreams don't scare you, they are not big enough. Allow us to welcome you to Live From Bravery Studios, a podcast dedicated to those individuals chasing their dreams and creating a positive impact on their environment.
How many times have you tried to lose weight and didn't quite make it? OR, you did make it but life happened and it all came back, plus more? How many times have you wished that someone could simply understand the nightmare of being overweight? Having to endure the name calling, the looks and even the nasty comments. Well, I have gone through all of that and so much more. I am currently on my own weight loss journey and have lost 200 pounds and I am still working to lose more. I don't have a ...
The Bravery Board promotes mental wellness and thriving to high performing women, creatives, & those who desire growth. We are an attorney and humanitarian (Lindsay Donaldson), counselor and artist (Michelle Houghton), pastor and speaker (Kate Alsup), and author and fundraising coach (Jenn Fortner). We are a group of women who believe in the power of being brave through vulnerability and sharing our growth (however scary or messy it may be!) with others. The Bravery Board hosts quarterly gat ...
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In a world where it’s easier than ever to start a business, what stops most entrepreneurs from performing at their full potential? Join business coach Greg Faxon as he interviews Seth Godin, Pamela Slim, and other brave entrepreneurs on what it really takes to make a great living while serving others. Make sure to visit www.gregfaxon.com for free articles, tools, and resources that will help you grow your business without shrinking your life.
I see you and know you, because I am you. A person who lives a good life, but knows that it could be great. But fear holds you back. You might not recognize it as fear, but the procrastination, people pleasing and living by societal norms are all symptoms of your fear. Its time to live the life you were meant for. Prepare to be inspired and motivated to change your life by listening to interviews with guests who have faced their fears to achieve the life of their dreams (they’re our Beacons) ...
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Flirty Little Teens??
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TRIGGER WARNING FOR THIS EPISODE: SA, CA, and victim blaming We're bringing the "Cult Cringe" again..... In this episode Whisper and Jemima read another publication that was required reading for all Children of God cult members, titled "Flirty Little Teens Beware". This publication was directed at us, the children, and places the blame on us pretee…
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Episode 5 - This Change is Permanent
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Here are the topics we are going to talk about today: · Acknowledging that this change is permanent and you are not on a “diet” · Sticking with your new food and routines to keep the weight melting off · Learning to be stronger than you ever thought you could be So, if you are ready, then let’s rock and roll!…
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Episode 4 - Setting Yourself Up to Win!
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Some of the topics I will be talking about today are: •Building a positive environment •Working through past traumas to help you move forward •Avoiding negative self-talk •Healthy snacks to have around So, if you are ready to go, let’s do this!!Kirjoittanut Sean G. Morsse
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The Beginning of the Beginning
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In this episode, we hear Sara Durham's story, from being born into a cult and raised under the crushing weight of extreme beliefs, through the cult imploding, beginning her healing journey and the work of “undoing”, to the beautiful place she is today. With encouragement, wit, and profound insights, Sara will cheer you on to believe in your own awe…
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Episode 3 - The Power of Food
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Today, we are going to talk about the power of food. Food can be your friend or your enemy. It all depends on how you look at it. So, to that end, this is what I have planned for today. · The recommended daily amounts you should be taking in · What I eat in a normal day · Looking at food from a positive point of view So, off we go!…
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Episode 2 - Slowing Down and Establishing a Routine
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Some of the things we are going to talk about are: · Why getting into a routine will help your weight loss journey · Getting up at least 30 minutes (half an hour) sooner than you used too and why that is so helpful · Disconnecting from your electronic devices a little bit every day · Learning to enjoy the “little things in life” So with all that be…
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Episode One: A New Journey
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Welcome to your new motivational guide to weight loss from your average blue collar man. I will lay out with what we will be doing with the podcast and hopefully bring something to the table that you can use on your weight loss journey. We may be miles apart even so, let me help you begin new and exciting journey in your life. Thank you for taking …
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Victory Garden Sanctuary With Monique Ana
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"None of us are safe until all of us are safe." -A bold and true statement from this episode’s guest, Monique Ana. Creating spaces where Survivors can experience different healing modalities is the mission at Victory Garden Sanctuary. Born and raised in the same Children of God cult, Monique is now putting everything she has into making a safe spac…
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On The Lighter Side of Things
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Did you know that March was chosen as Women's History Month because it's the only month that came with instructions? (No, it's a mom joke.) For our first podcast of the month, we're keeping it on the lighter side of things so that we can continue recovering from last week's podcast. We chat about AI, diamond art and what's up ahead for this month, …
In this episode, Whisper and Jemima read one of the most heinous publications the Children of God cult put out. A missive published in November of 1986 that was so despicable, cult members were told to burn it immediately after reading it. Plus, we’ve got some exciting news! Please listen with caution. This was not by any means easy to read, and we…
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The Healing Is In the Pain
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An astounding Polaris Project study on needs of survivors of human trafficking had us asking if adults who were born into cults and those who were trafficked have similar needs. Join Whisper and her trusty sidekick Jemima as they discuss the study, Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) and the stigma surrounding "big stories". You know, the ones tha…
Hello, February! With jokes and laughs and cries we weave our way through a talk about human trafficking, survivor resources, exciting things going on in the ex-born in a cult arena, “Heaven’s girl”, and why it's an accomplishment to stick around for the brighter tomorrows we never thought would come. Plus, a surprise visit from a new pet! Links to…
Our conversation with cult survivor Angela led us down several paths. Angela describes her experience in the Children of God as, "I didn't really have thoughts about did I or did I not believe, it just was." During our chat together we address things that many of us struggle with like body positivity issues, listening to our bodies and knowing when…
Welcome 2023! In our first episode of the year we share some stats from last year, talk about things we've learned and tell some stories too. We hope you enjoy this episode and we're glad you're here to live another day. Support the show Support The Show: https://paypal.me/bnbdonations?country.x=US&locale.x=en_US Visit our Website Follow us: Instag…
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Communications Technology
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Join Brandon and Captain Obvery (of the USS Gary) on the adventure of a lifetime, as we go through the world of communications. We talk e-mail, texting, social media, virtual reality, and the possibilities of instantaneous communications. Come learn all about Avery's hatred of circle jerks - he prefers to jerk alone! We hope by the end of the podca…
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Chutes and Ladders, Cult Version
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We had the privilege of being guests on another podcast, Critical and Thinking with Ty Barnett and Ian Harris. Join us as we chat more in depth about some of the topics covered, and a few other tangents. Butterflies and Bravery wishes you all a happy Thanksgiving week. This time of year can be difficult for many of us, so we hope you find a way to …
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Humlity's Roar and The Ant Hill
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Sometimes a whisper can be louder than a roar. Join us this week as we chat about what's been going on in our worlds. Jemima talks about a fall at work and what that might mean for her in the near future. Then Whisper tells us how she learned that humility can look very differently than we may think. We close this episode with Jemima's "The Ant Hil…
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We Know Our ABCs - Kind Of
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Attention Deficit Hacks, Building Back Better and Connections If it’s living with CPTSD or living with ADHD, we need our little life hacks. Whisper found an ADHD helpline…tweet. It’s a Twitter thread. In a shorter, light-hearted episode, we catch up with each other and talk about what’s coming up for the podcast and remind ourselves about the thing…
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Are "All Things Lawful Unto Me"?
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Note to cult leaders: Maybe read the whole Bible verse before starting a new belief system? Jemima and Whisper talk a little about everything (again) in this episode, including the correlation--that Whisper doesn't pronounce correctly (again)--between Human Trafficking, Domestic Violence and cult life. Parenting, The Scarlet Pimpernel, telling our …
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Your Current Situation Isn’t Permanent--Looking Back to See the Way Forward
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Welcome to episode 39 of the Beacons of Bravery podcast! Tune in if you feel stuck in life and don't see a way through your current circumstances. There's always a silver lining to whatever you're going through. We'll talk about Neil Pasricha's work with the "Invisible Staircase" of our life and that we often are terrible predictors of our future. …
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Alternative Democracies
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Is government slow for a good reason? Is the current two-party system a problem? Should there be a border wall between Kentucky and WV? Are Italian mob bosses a threat to my house? Do you need to know advanced algebra to listen to this episode? Enter Avery's Idea Corner and Question Time, to learn about alternative democracies. Will any of it work?…
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Our Roots Are In Each Other
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Lisa Kendall, founder of Counter Cult Coalition, joins us again to talk about the latest news with the federal statute of limitations being lifted on civil lawsuits relating to allegations of child sexual abuse and federal crimes harming children. Raising awareness about cults and the needs of those born into a cult is a mission we have in common. …
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The Sneaky Fear of Success--and the invisible stories holding us back
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In this solo episode we dive into an insidious fear, one that most of us don't think we have, yet it rears it's head when we least expect it. The Fear of Success. While we can all relate to the fear of failure, public embarrassment, etc. We don't realize that our dreams and goals may be extinguished by the fear of success. We delve into the phenome…
SUBJECT WARNING: UNALIVING YOURSELF When we sat down together to talk about upcoming plans and new projects, our conversation quickly shifted, because it was the struggles that so many of our ex-cult community have been facing that sat heavy on our minds. We had to talk about what could be done to help our community not feel so alone. We see the ne…
After last weeks very somber episode, we thought it would be nice to do something a little lighter this week. Whisper and Jemima share stories about THC and other gummies, some funny sex stories and a whole lot more. We hope you laugh your ass off like we did! Support the show Support The Show: https://paypal.me/bnbdonations?country.x=US&locale.x=e…
SUBJECT WARNING-UNALIVING YOURSELF Having been born prisoners of our parents war, an all too familiar tragedy we face in our communities is ongoing and constant suicides. Whisper and Jemima both share some of their personal experiences of having been to the darkest of places, the place where you want to cease to exist. We talk about some of the str…
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Commercial Drones of the Future
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Brandon's bird drones? Avery's flying selfie stick? Slappers on robots? None of these make sense! But they DO make it into this podcast about future drones for commercial use. Welcome to part 1 of our 3-part drone series (Commercial, Industrial, Residential).Kirjoittanut Brandon and Avery
Join the Bravery podcast for a trip to the future, where everything is made up, and the points don't matter. Today's topic: Religion! .... "Uh oh!" you might be thinking. And you'd be right! We can't promise you will or will not like this podcast, so please enjoy the starting disclaimer, and let that be your one, and only, warning.…
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Losing My Religion
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Janice Selbie was born into fundamentalist Pentecostal Christianity. She was steeped in the church from birth. Eventually her need for authenticity, outweighed her need for acceptance. Today, a trained therapist, she aids others in their escape from the clutches of fundamentalist religion. She also recently hosted a conference on religious trauma a…
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The Crocodile Closest to The Boat
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Beth Matenaer went from adopted to "a troubled teen" sent off into the mountains of California. Attempting escape, Beth hiked 50 miles to civilization in the middle of the night. Hear the rest of her story as we interview Beth, now a trained trauma therapist working with cult survivors and drug and alcohol addiction. Along with Dr. Janja Lalich, a …
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Reparenting is Never Linear
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Growing up in a cult or a high control or coercive atmosphere can sometimes leave your inner child needing reparenting. What is reparenting anyhow? Tonight we talk about what that means for both of us, and remind ourselves that it can look different at all the stages of our journey, and how a little change in perspective can make huge differences a…
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We Even Coordinated Outfits For This Episode
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In this episode, a t-shirt that read, "Life leads you down many paths, but my favorite one leads to the mountains" started off the conversation, and it did lead us down many paths. We start in Jamaica, plus hear updates from "Aunt Jemima's" life and some exciting possibilities coming her way. Other paths included understanding others, living with t…
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Don't Just Cope, Restructure!
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We’ve all faced times in our lives when we get shaken, but sometimes we find ourselves facing times where it feels like nothing’s letting up. And just like a soda bottle, that constant shaking is building pressure with each jolt. If we don’t let some of that out in a controlled escape, things start to go boom. Whisper gets vulnerable again this wee…
GPT-3 is an AI algorithm that has been fed billions of articles throughout the internet and uses that to form answers from prompts. Working with our first-time guest, Roy, who is the local expert on this new technology, we dive into how this all works and what we think the advantages and dangers of it all will lead to.…
Using the following link: (put link here) We talk a little about what the future of work life will be. Concepts like how much will automation be involved and how much free time will we have are discussed in this important look into our daily lives of the future.Kirjoittanut Brandon and Avery
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She's An Eagle When She Flies
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How do you fit a life like ours into a single chapter? Whisper makes a run at doing just that with her chapter in "Dare to Express", a collaboration book coming out in September. A handful of amazing women were invited to write a chapter about their lives, and Whisper was one of them. Jemima and Whisper read this beautifully woven story of a little…
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Rebuild and Thrive by Amanda Moon Ellevis
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Amanda Moon Ellevis is a survivor of trafficking and sexual exploitation. Her heart for the exploited stems from her unique vulnerabilities as a young musician in the San Francisco Bay Area, as well as her experience being homeless. Now she’s helping others through her newly released book, “Rebuild and Thrive” a guide to assist survivors of exploit…
This week we have a short episode as Whisper and Jemima touch base to talk about their week and what’s been happening in their corner of the world. Whisper’s little fur baby is having some health issues, and Jemima and Whisper talk more about taking care of the pets they’ve loved and lost. Support the show Support The Show: https://paypal.me/bnbdon…
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COG-TFI Survivors: The fight for justice in the aftermath of a destructive cult
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In our first ever two-guest episode we talk with two of the founders of the COG-TFI Survivors movement. Their mission is to spread awareness and bring justice to the survivors of the extremist cult, the Children of God. To expose their crimes, and appeal to authorities to take action against COG-TFI leaders and abusers. We have a chance to ask some…
Sometimes we all need a little reminder that we’ve got this. In this episode, Whisper and Jemima share some affirmations that can give us that reminder. And in their signature fashion, throw in a little bit of everything as they wander around things off topic, catch up on their week and spend time laughing at themselves. So if you need a little bre…
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Dancing With Joy and Sorrow
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"Grief does not change you. It reveals you.” -- John Green Grief and loss are things that we all face at some point in our life. But when losses come one after another, we can end up in grief overload. Melissa found herself facing this, having lost her mother and two brothers in a short period of time. But where many might have crumbled, Melissa fo…
This episode, come join us as we welcome Pride month, and chat about random things, including the definition of PTSD, CPTSD and Moral Injury. Plus, we have some laughs as we discuss sexuality, jack hammers and carousels, caves, headlamps and rage rooms. We hope you’ll enjoy spending the evening with us! - Whisper & Jemima https://linktr.ee/bnbravep…
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Unmasking Fundamentalist Christianity
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Born into a fundamentalist Christian home, Tammie Willis knew coercion and control from a very young age. Kept busy with religious activities, school and church all day, she had little time for anything else. Leaving religion and deconstructing the trauma that she had experienced may have been easier if her life wasn't struck with tragedy in her te…
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Speaking Up with Andrew Pledger
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Andrew Pledger was born in a fundamentalist Christian home. He was home schooled and fully immersed in religion from a very young age. When he began to question things in his teen years, he came to some conclusions that didn't quite line up with what he had been taught. He broke free from his religion and came out to the world as part of the LGBTQ+…
BRANDON LOVE CHICKEN NUGGETS Enter the world of fast food in the year 2050, where your food is 3D printed and delivered by drones. Up is down, apple is potato, and meeeoooowwww...Kirjoittanut Brandon and Avery
Ashlee was only 16 when she met him. What appeared at first to be a fairytale romance, became a web of control growing over her life. The short-lived joy of a fancy car and new clothes came crashing down. Once things turned bloody, she knew she had to escape. Before it was too late. Ashlee's dramatic story became one of transformation and healing f…
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Two Cult Babies Turn One
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We are officially one year old! And what a year it's been! We have been honored with the presence of so many survivors, heard stories that made us laugh and cry, and we've shared them with the world. Whisper and Jemima talk about some of the things that have surprised them the most about being podcasters, as well as some of the reasons we do this. …
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Let's Talk Cults with Deb Donner Part 2
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In the second half of our two-part interview with Deb Donner, we learn even more details about daily life for kids in The Wesleyan Community compound, and where it all is today. Plus we pick some daisies about growing up in cults, finding purpose, family relationships, and figuring out life outside the cult. Support the show Support The Show: https…
Avery and Brandon imagine what space tourism and travel will be like nearly 30 years in the future. Topics include space cruises, amusement parks on the moon, traveling to mars, and even concepts like elevators. We'll try and stay on topic before the whiskey kicks in...Kirjoittanut Brandon and Avery
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Let's Talk Cults with Deb Donner Part 1
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Deb Donner grew up in The Wesleyan Community, a cult-church led by Lou Hillendahl and spent much of that time living in tents without electricity or running water. That’s only part of her incredible story of survival. In this first half of a two-part interview, Deb speaks candidly & unapologetically with Jemima and Whisper of her life both in and a…