Mette and Candice, friends for more than thirty years, both found themselves divorced during the pandemic. They have very different perspectives on the challenge of finding themselves in the midst of an entirely new life.
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Candice and Mette talk about what the podcast has meant to them.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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We talk about what makes us feel safe and what doesn't.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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Two recovering perfectionists talk about the contining temptation.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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Can you become more fun and if so, how?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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Why Do I Keep Doing Too Much?
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When you know you shouldn't do too much, why do you keep doing it anyway? What are you winning? What are you avoiding?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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What do you keep, literally and metaphorically, after a major life change?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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Do you give advice? Why or why not?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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My Body Is Falling Apart
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If no one has ever told you before, it sucks getting old.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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All the things we've learned to do since our divorces.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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What do you regret? How do you let go of regret? What regret is it useful to hold onto, if any?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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Taking a good hard look at how we self-sabotage
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How good are you at taking feedback? Should you always?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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Yes, we're talking literally and metaphorically hereKirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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The Value of Subtraction
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What can I take out of my life that will add to my life?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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Are you allowed to get what you want? That's the first step in getting it. Other thoughts on the same.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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Independence and Asking for Help
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How do you learn to ask for help and not give up your sense of independence?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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When you have nothing left, you hit the wall. Sometimes that can be a very good thing.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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We talk about avoiding the binary of this type of thinking.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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Sometimes you worry if there will be enough time, but there is.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie H
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Is self-care bath bombs and chocolate or is it more than that?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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What is money for? How do you use money properly? How do you feel less guilty about money? How do you use money for happiness?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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What do you do when anniversaries about things you're still processing come up?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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What if "because I want to?" is not a selfish thing to say, but actually the only reason any of us do anything?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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25. Stop Feeling Bad About Your Divorce
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Why divorce isn't the worst thing in the world. If you're up for that discussion.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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It's time for us to own our anger.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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24. Solving All the Problems
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Do you think we can solve all the problems? Because we definitely do.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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Can you experience pain without suffering. Your two hosts argue charmingly about this.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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Women and mothers are often invisible. We would like to stop being invisible, please.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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People might change, but it doesn't seem to happen very often, or at least not on a character level.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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Do you hate the love language paradigm? Is it useful at all?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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19. Their Opinion is None of My Business
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Everyone says this, but how can you really learn how to not care about their business and believe it's really what you think about yourself that matters?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Stevens
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18. If It's Going to Get Done . . .
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If it's going to get done, it has to be by me. Ever feel like this? We do.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens
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We take a little quiz to see how optimistic we are. We are both surprised (though you may not be).Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens
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What is forgiveness? Is it letting things go or is it something more?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens
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We have both been through changes in our religious beliefs, but have also ended in very different places.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens
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Some people hate birthdays. Some people love birthdays. Guess which of us is which?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens
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How do you feel about your changing physical appearance after age 50? Wrinkles, gray hair, sagging--um, other parts. We chat frankly about these issues.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens
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What is happy? How is happy? Is happy?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens
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How do yout rust yourself when you are the one who has always minimized and betrayed you?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens
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10: Past, Present, Future Selves
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Trying to figure out how to reconcile the different versions of ourselves, offering them all grace.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens
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9: Putting Yourself On Hold
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Women tend to put their own needs on hold. We talk about how to not do that anymore.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens
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Mette and Candice talk about the pain of losing people as your life changes, and the choice to lose people, as well.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens
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Depression is scary and lonely. It isn’t something I would wish on my worst enemy. But it is something that I’ve ended up helping dearest friends through. Sometimes I’m even grateful for my depression because it has allowed me to understand something I never understood before and to help articulate the thoughts that depression whispers to you.…
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In high school, one teacher who only ever saw us when we were together called us "Mettice," Candice and Mette. Here is our origin story, even though it took us a decade to remember the first time we truly met.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens
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Do you think brooms are not things of joy? Well, listen to us discuss why they can be.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens
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There are wonderful things about being alone. Here are some of them.Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens
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We all seem to enter into relationships with the idea that there are certain rules, but when other people don't follow the same rules, we're angry. And discover that they never had the same rules in the first place. How could they not?Kirjoittanut Mette Ivie Harrison and Candice Clark Stevens
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