How do I go about making and maintaining friendships? How do I balance being authentically me and being offensive, or people pleasing to fit in and taking constructive criticism?

The way we talk to ourselves is extremely important, and if you're constantly putting yourself down, you might just end up believing yourself. The voice in your own head is crucial to how you view yourself and ultimately how you'll behave. Be sure to direct your energy at your improvement and not your beratement.…

We can very easily get caught up in social media's hype of self-care and perceive it as everyone needs to adhere to certain kinds of self-care. But it's highly specific to YOU! So figure out what helps you get out of a rut when you're low, but also what helps you celebrate and feel appreciated by yourself when things are going fine.…

We all have a personalized version of self talk for different situations in our lives. When we play sports, get work done, make a mistake; we all have a different kind of self conversation in these instances, and we use it to either cope with what's happening or motivate us to do better. However, sometimes we can be overly critical of ourselves in …

Let me preface this by saying I HAVE ONLY EVER CRIED IN ONE MOVIE!! Like i almost NEVER cry at movies. NEVER. Well. Almost hahaha. When I found myself failing to fight back the tears, I realized that the issues I had been pushing away for so long were finding any reason to rise to the surface and remind me that they were there. I took this as the t…

I love episodes like these where I just get to share my thoughts about things in my life. There's nothing more genuine and refreshing than just allowing myself to express my won thoughts. I've always loved sharing them with you, and I hope you like listening and giving me your 2 cents too!!!

I recently had a conversation with my friend, Kylie, about preparing for a masters application and how to rewrite a resume. A few days after that conversation, she got a job!!! I was elated and wanted to share about that conversation.

I'm super excited to get to collab and produce some simple content for Listen! Kuching. They're collecting articles and videos about having relationships in a pandemic, and this is my 2 cents about the topic!

If I could go back in time and give myself some advice, I'd have done quite a few things differently. There are things that I could've done to make the transition into taking my masters a lot smoother, and this is what I would've done!!!!

We'll never please everyone, so that means we're bound to displease someone at some point in our lives. But that doesn't make it any easier to deal with when it happens, especially if you believe in your ability on that matter. I got a bad review for my tutoring and my self-perception really took a hit. How do you guys deal with this?…

I'm sure we've all been there when a friend is in need. But how do we say the right thing? How do we properly comfort them without making things worse?? Today I talk about what I learned in an online seminar regarding just that, and my personal experience and opinion on the matter!!

I used to surround myself with "friends". I felt the need to constantly be around people, please people, and provide help to people. While I still believe in helping people, I have learned to help myself in that process. I didn't always bear my soul out to close friends, but I have learned the necessity of doing so. It gets so incredibly tiring try…

The past 2 months have been particularly challenging for me, and I found myself having NO motivation at all. I woke up feeling shitty, and just had NO drive to do anything. A friend got me out of the house and really shocked my entire system, and that was the shock I needed to get back on track. I hope I'll be able to shock you guys too ;) Music: J…

Applying for my masters in this pandemic has been such a different and eye-opening experience for me. My college Biology lecturer once told me: "If you're going to someone in the medical profession, wouldn't you want them to have been a straight A student?" This stuck with me as I contemplated my future journey into counselling, because it held me …

Reminder that personality traits are on a continuum!!! They're not black and white. We just tend to be more or less dominant for each trait :) I've always believed that knowing more about your own personality empowers you to be more accountable for your actions and thoughts. You'll also be more empowered to change your behaviours, dispositions, and…

Have you ever wondered why a class of students won't ask questions when a lecturer asks if they have any, until that one brave student does? Or how some people may see someone breaking the law and not do anything about it?? That's called the bystander effect!! The 3 main things contributing to this effect are: Diffusion of responsibility, evaluatio…

While humans have the capacity to learn to become helpless, we also have the capacity to learn to be hopeful again!! Using the 3 P's, we can actually build a resilience AGAINST depression and anxiety!! We can teach ourselves to be more optimistic by critically analyzing the bad things that happen in our lives.…

I recently completed a Positive Psychology course on Coursera, and it really shed some light onto this topic which I thought I was familiar with. It showed me a lot more about the HOW of this mental state. People actually project their past experiences onto their future possible experiences. They have decided for themselves that they can't escape w…

I've always known that I wanted to do counselling, but I recently got swayed when I was told that counsellors can't diagnose patients. This affected me in a bigger way than it should've as I felt very much "second class". Speaking to people who were in the profession really helped me correct this thinking, but I couldn't help but wonder if there we…

I will fight till the last point is scored. It's just how I was brought up and trained. No matter what sport I'm playing, it's not over till it's over. It got me wondering: "How come some people give up so quickly?" Turns out that you can train yourself to persevere!! Using the neurotransmitter called "Dopamine", you can actually "trick" your brain…

When I train in Muay Thai, I was taught to match the speed of the person I'm padding for. So if we're training, we should take it slow, because if the person starts to rush and get aggressive, I'm gonna have to match pace with him. This got me thinking about how I can go from 0-100 real quick if somebody starts yelling at me, and vice versa if I st…

After a recent interview didn't materialize, I started self reflecting on my own actions. Do I run away from problems that I face; do I avoid uncomfortable situations; am I unconsciously hindering myself from facing challenges? I believe that I'm in control of my choices, but I noticed how I avoid uncomfortable scenarios. Are you short-changing you…

In this episode, we talk with Jesslyn Rollins, the CEO of Biolyte! Biolyte is in our opinion the best sports drink out right now on the market. It hydrates you quick and keeps you going with amazing ingredients and health benefits! Jesslyn talks about the benefits of drinking it and why athletes should be picking them up at their local grocery stor…

I recently tuned into a webinar with Jay Shetty where he talked about how to find and monetize your passion. Obviously I don't have much input on the monetizing part, but I loved how he illustrated finding your passion; going from interest to passion to purpose.

I recently watched a video by Tim Ferris the explained how we use "keeping busy" as a disguise for our personal laziness. I found that intriguing because this was so evident in the MCO period, where I was trying to just DO something, but I wasn't really moving towards a goal of any sort. I hope you guys will be able to catch your "laziness" and avo…

Shout out to Nalni (BurntCaramel) who requested this topic!!! Acting, speaking and presenting isn't something that came naturally to me, but it's something that I learned how to do. It's like a performance; the more I practiced, the easier it became to deliver that performance. Things like castings and acting STILL make me incredibly nervous and se…

Sam told me to share our conversation about job applications, so here it is!! When I first graduated, it was tough for me to know WHICH jobs to apply for. I had little to no experience, and I had NO idea what I wanted to do or would be good at doing. It started out as applying for EVERY job under the sun but after a couple years I was able to learn…

From pursuing your passion to self-development, Melissa is someone who lives the life, and walks the talk. We had an amazing time talking about work during MCO, handling criticism, and upgrading our character.

Living in a multi-racial and multi-cultural society, we're bound to have different beliefs, people, and attitudes. Unfortunately, we'll also have different treatment. I witnessed this first hand as I was refused service by a Tesco worker after she had helped a couple right before me. It's easier to blame it on race and get angry, but it got me thin…

I've been on and off with my videos but now I wanted to hone in a little bit. I want to document my journey and show the struggles I go through in hope that it'll help someone out there with something similar, or even inspire you to start what you've always wanted to start!!

In today’s episode, we talk about Stephen Claybourns journey and how he went from 464LBs to 286! How he bounced back and got into shape. The 75 Hard challenge. Stephen discuss what he does in his spare time and what drives him! He mentions how much family means to him and what he’s trying to leave behind for them. Follow Stephen on IG @bethelionlif…

Checking in on my food allergy community during the Coronavirus crisis!

In today’s episode, we have a very special guest, owner and founder of Elite Mixtapes, Bryce Lanning! We talk about his global brand and what it took to get him to where he’s at now. We discuss The John Wall Invitational, Montverde Academy, The Patrick School & Hillcrest Prep. The best games he filmed, as well as the best player he filmed which was…

In today’s episode, we talk about Donnie Bui and his career with Ball Is Life and what he does now with The Hoop State Network. Donnie has built his basketball filming career over the last decade working with some of the best basketball players in the country like Zion. We talk about The John Wall Invitational and what games to lookout for. Montver…

In today’s episode, we featured Justin Sherman with JustinTime Baseball. He teaches little league coaches how to coach better. He shows them why you should rotate kids at a young age on the field. Justin talks about how he got cut in high school to being a college player! Check out Justin on Instagram @justintimebaseball & follow us on Instagram @a…

In today’s episode, we have two baseball studs on our podcast! Jon Sintes & Cass Kreitlow. We talk about how kids can throw harder and why speed is more important than accuracy at a young age. Is it better to build a team around offense or defense? They both provide great points and tips on how to be a better baseball player! Follow them on Instagr…

In today’s episode, we had the founder and CEO of Coach Crates! They provide coaches with baseball boxes that has tools to enhance their coaching ability. Each month they have a different box with various baseball accessories. Dave talked about how he’s helping coaches all around the country out and why he thinks they differentiate themselves from …

In today’s episode, we sit down with former pro basketball player QuAndrae Dixon, owner of Nexxx Level! We talk about what it takes to be great in basketball and how to set yourself apart from the competition. We talk about the best high school teams in North Carolina. As well as the best players in Wilmington. Finally, we talk about the NBA and th…

In today’s episode, we talk about @Baseballogist journey in his life, Instagram and what he wants to do to help others! We talk about how baseball needs to grow and get more culturally accepted. Follow @Baseballogist on Instagram and TikTok. Follow us @allaboutathletesusa & @showcaseprospects

In today’s episode, we featured Austin Byler and talked about his company Major League University. What it takes to be in the MLB and what life looks like after that. Austin talks about how important the mental side is in baseball and life. Finally, we talk about CBD/Hemp Oil and how it has helped him and others. Follow Austin @austinbyler @majorle…

We are going to talk about parental perceptions in caring for preschoolers with diagnosed food allergies and the internal and external stress it has on parents.

Real talk about the top eight food allergies

All About Athletes talks sports with Kai (@MMJkaijones) & Laieke (@Strikanation24_)! We dive into Day’Ron Sharpe and his potential at South Central & UNC! We also talk about the recent ECI Team Camp in Jacksonville NC and who were the standout players and teams. Also we talk about the college basketball teams and what the season looks like for Duke…

We dive in with Ryan Tow @TowGotti and his massive baseball brand @SMASHLETES! We talk branding, baseball, and what to do if you’re a young athlete on social media! Ryan also owns @SmashletesSports, @Smashletes_Softball, @SmashletesGG! Make sure you follow him and stay tuned he’s got big things coming! Follow Us On Instagram @ALLABOUTATHLETESUSA & …

Baseball & Instagram with @MLBTRASHTALKERS . We dive into baseball and thoughts on current players and retired ones. As well as how to build a big Instagram page and create good content! Follow them on Instagram @MLBTRASHTALKERS

Food allergy awareness

Food allergy awareness

I've been afraid of doing new things and I'm sure that I'm not alone. But don't allow that fear to cripple you forever. One day you just need to suck it up and do it IN SPITE OF your fear. Don't let regret seep in when you look back on all the things you COULD HAVE DONE.

No matter how old you are or where you are in your life?it's NEVER too late to start what you've always wanted. Just look at me and this podcast! Go get busy!!

The kindest of people sometimes like themselves the least. Beating ourselves up only hinders our ability to love others, so let's begin to be more accepting of ourselves. #love