Parhaat Parental Alienation Podcastit (2023)

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Beyond The High Road (of Parental Alienation)

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Your Inner Critic & How To Get Things Accomplished Anyway 24:44

5d ago24:44

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Life is difficult enough when you’re experiencing alienation, but our minds often make it even harder by adding in the negative self-talk/criticism. In this episode: how to recognize the difference between the critic and inner wisdom the critic's intentions how to visualize the critic, lightening your mood how to respond to the critic so that you g…

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16. The "Pet Names" You Call Your Ex & The Story You're Telling Yourself ABOUT Your Story 27:01

12d ago27:01

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Also! I forgot to mention the monthly drawing is still in effect.. Winner receives a free month of the new membership program that begins in Feb. Y'all.. so far, the odds are in your favor, bc I only have 3 names in the hat (but I can’t say the same for the Early Bird special on the grp coaching membership, so you may wanna catch it before it close…

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15. Feeling Closeness From Afar: The Story You're Telling Yourself MATTERS 29:35

19d ago29:35

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This episode takes a look at: where (any) relationship exists how your thoughts always dictate how you feel and act how to think in a way that is in alignment with your ultimate desires and chosen purposesNew program Feb 1st! Check for the new website on (or after) Friday Jan 13... OHHH... I'm just now putting that together -- Freaky Friday!😆 Pls f…

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14. Habits That Hinder Our Healing (Part 3 of 3) 43:14

26d ago43:14

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In this 3 part series, I help parents experiencing the effects of alienation to envision (any kind of) addiction in a rather non-traditional way. The method I use to address indulgent habits like drinking, eating, and other unhelpful numbing agents, is hands down, the most effective set of tools I've learned throughout my years of research. Don't f…

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Beyond The High Road (of Parental Alienation)

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13. Habits That Hinder (Part 2 of 3) 38:27

1M ago38:27

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Part 2--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/shelby-milford/message

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Beyond The High Road (of Parental Alienation)

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Bonus Episode. Offerin' Up Some Impromptu Holiday Love and Well Wishes❤️🎄 9:26

1M ago9:26

9:26

Y'all have been on my heart and mind a LOT over the last 24, and I just wanted to let you know that you are LOVED. You are your child's PERFECT parent. Nothing - not NOTHING - can ever overpower that. Merry MERRY Christmas and Happy New Year to all my parents who have been experiencing the effects of being alienated from their babes. PLEASE message…

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Beyond The High Road (of Parental Alienation)

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12. Narrating, Equal Airtime, and (Not) Processing Away Feelings 20:48

1M ago20:48

20:48

This episode is filled with a handful of tips and tricks to help when inconvenient emotions arise. Also, I provide further explanation (an addendum, if you will) to my method and philosophy pertaining to processing feelings. Holiday support group will continue thru the end of December, and will revisit options in January. Follow me on instagram: @b…

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Parental Alienation: From Couch to Courtroom and Beyond

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Episode 16: Boundary Violations in Parental Alienation Cases 17:24

1M ago17:24

17:24

A severe, but frequently overlooked and understood dysfunction is boundary violation. It clearly meets the definition of abuse, whether it is directed toward a child or an adult. Counselors and mental health professionals must pay more and closer attention to this issue.Kirjoittanut Dr. Bob Evans and NAOPAS

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Beyond The High Road (of Parental Alienation)

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11. Habits That Hinder Our Healing 42:52

2M ago42:52

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(how's that for some alliteration?😉)Today's episode is the first of two, discussing the habits and addictions we find ourselves utilizing in order to cope with life. As alienated parents, I think that the behaviors associated with addiction have their own unique set of motivating factors, as well as it's own set of potential consequences. I also be…

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10. Your Identity 27:35

2M ago27:35

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When you first had your child, your outlook on life probably changed drastically — your priorities shifted; your work schedule, social life, and habits likely did also. So, when a change suddenly occurs in your parenting time, it makes complete sense that it would affect how you view yourself in relation to the rest of the world. You might question…

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9. Alienated Parent's Bill of Rights 46:27

2M ago46:27

46:27

I’m assuming, that if the family court system was involved in any part of your custody situation, that you're familiar Children's Bill of Rights. And, if you are anything like me , you also have mixed feelings about even hearing those words (“children's bill of rights”) because, it likely didn't prove to be measurable/enforceable. So The term itsel…

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Beyond The High Road (of Parental Alienation)

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8. Bittersweet Memories: What To Do When They Resurface 20:24

2M ago20:24

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Today we’re discussing the helpful (and not-so helpful) perspectives we, as alienated parents, can take when memories of our children come up. I’ll share with you the pitfalls of either letting them control you or fearing/avoiding them altogether. Then I’ll provide you with the method I use, which allows me to preserve the memories — honoring them.…

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Beyond The High Road (of Parental Alienation)

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7. 3 Ways We Make The Holidays More Difficult/ What To Do Instead 23:37

2M ago23:37

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As an alienated parent, the holidays can be ROUGH, y'all. There was a 4 year period when I spent them all by myself. SOLO (well, besides my animals). I get it. Instead of living, I spent most of November - December under the covers of my bed. During my 6 year "regroup", I developed programs for trying times like these. The tips I share in this epis…

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6. Move Past The Pain Of Alienation/Stop Self-Sabotage By Allowing Your Emotions 28:39

2M ago28:39

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If you're tired of feeling like being an alienated parent is what defines you... if you feel like you can't let go of the anger... If you're just frustrated because no matter how hard you try to change your situation, you keep ending up with the same results... then grab a cup of coffee and tune in. This one is about how to allow your feelings, so …

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5. Shift Your Perspective To Find Good In The World: When You Feel Jaded By Alienation 25:10

3M ago25:10

25:10

Are you feeling stuck in the gummy muck of negativity? If the world feels dark and toxic to you -- if you feel exhausted by your thoughts and like you've run out of hope and/or purpose, I've got a couple tricks up my sleeve for you. In this episode we discuss: why you haven't been able to get out of the "stuck" state human suffering and how to view…

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Beyond The High Road (of Parental Alienation)

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4. When You Feel Judged or Persecuted As An Alienated Parent 35:10

3M ago35:10

35:10

As an alienated parent, you're no stranger to the whispers, side eyes, and glaring judgements. You might have shied away from doing social events, dating life, and even let go of some friendships, or even isolated yourself entirely. In this episode, I share with you: from a scientific standpoint, WHY the judgement can be so difficult HOW the human …

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3. Maintaining Control Over Your Emotional Well-Being As An Alienated Parent 32:28

3M ago32:28

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Going into the holiday season, emotions have a tendency to run high. If you’re an alienated parent, tho.. well.. raw emotions might’ve become 2nd nature for you . In this episode, learn how to:- take your power back - manage your mind around your feelings, - intentionally think and feel so that you can create the results you want…so that you never …

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Parental Alienation: From Couch to Courtroom and Beyond

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Episode 15 Understanding & Treating Psychological Splitting 17:27

3M ago17:27

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Psychological splitting is the underlying defense seen in children who have been manipulated to align with one parent and reject the other parent. Courts and therapists need to be informed about how detrimental psychological splitting is and identify the correct procedure to treat these children.Kirjoittanut Dr. Bob Evans and NAOPAS

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Beyond The High Road (of Parental Alienation)

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2. Erasing & Replacing 40:53

3M ago40:53

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Ohhh, this one, y'all.... it's a roughy. When your child refers to you by first name -- or worse yet -- they're calling someone else the term of endearment you thought was only reserved for you? Absolutely maddening. This strategy is yet another way that the alienating parent can send the message that you are not relevant anymore (this is what they…

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1. How To Heal Your Heart and Life After Experiencing Parental Alienation (First Episode Ever!) 31:26

3M ago31:26

31:26

Hi friend! Are you experiencing the effects of alienation? Do you feel stuck in one or more areas of your life as a result? Do you want to move forward with your life, but no matter what you do, you feel debilitated -- like a prisoner to the pain? Is being a target parent defining your life, even tho you've tried to rise above it? Then this new pod…

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Parental Alienation: From Couch to Courtroom and Beyond

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Episode 14: Measuring Children's Acceptance and Rejection (part 2) 16:09

4M ago16:09

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This episode is a continuation of episode 12 where the effects the alienating strategies on children is presented. Research shows these strategies and tactics have a strong negative effect on children.Kirjoittanut Dr. Bob Evans and NAOPAS

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Parental Alienation: From Couch to Courtroom and Beyond

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Episode 13: Professionals Working in the Alienation Field Need to be Trained 18:28

4M ago18:28

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Far too many legal and mental health professionals lack a comprehensive knowledge of Parental Alienation and, as a result, do damage to children. Albeit they're unaware of it. There is a critical need for such professionals working in this field to be thoroughly educated in Parental Alienation. This episode covers some of the strategies/tactics par…

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Parental Alienation: From Couch to Courtroom and Beyond

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Episode 12: Measuring Children's Acceptance and Rejection (part 1) 18:44

5M ago18:44

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Parental Alienation practitioners have wanted an assessment instrument to help identify alienated children. The PARQ has been demonstrated to be such an instrument and found to be highly reliable and valid.Kirjoittanut Dr. Bob Evans and NAOPAS

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Parental Alienation: From Couch to Courtroom and Beyond

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Episode 11: New Alienation Article 16:02

6M ago16:02

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This episode discusses a new journal article that presents strong research about parental alienation and refutes some of the critics of the phenomenon of parental alienation.Kirjoittanut Dr. Bob Evans and NAOPAS

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Parental Alienation: From Couch to Courtroom and Beyond

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Episode 10: Hayden's Law 16:00

8M ago16:00

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A new law in the U.S. Senate poses serious problems for those dealing with the phenomenon of parental alienation. We all need to take steps to alert our law makers to amend this bill before passage.Kirjoittanut Dr. Bob Evans and NAOPAS

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Parental Alienation: From Couch to Courtroom and Beyond

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Episode 9: Identification and Management of Alienation Cases 21:59

10M ago21:59

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This episode explains the identification process of parental alienation cases and points out the pit falls frequently found in alienation cases, including the serious consequences of failing to properly identify such cases. Also, don't forget to go to NAOPAS.com and type in the word podcast in the coupon section in order to get your 50% discount on…

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Parental Alienation: From Couch to Courtroom and Beyond

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Episode 8: Traditional Therapy Fails in Severe Alienation Cases 19:24

11M ago19:24

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Our court system routinely orders counseling and therapy for severe alienation cases and consistently these approaches fail. Courts need to know why this doesn't work. Also, don't forget to go to NAOPAS.com and type in the word podcast in the coupon section in order to get your 50% discount on all the training opportunities available on the site.…

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Parental Alienation: From Couch to Courtroom and Beyond

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Episode 7: Detecting Parental Alienation 20:50

12M ago20:50

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The components of parental alienation are discussed so therapists and legal professionals can investigate and identify the details commonly associated with this phenomenon.Kirjoittanut Dr. Bob Evans

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Parental Alienation: From Couch to Courtroom and Beyond

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Episode 6: Parental Alienation and Attachment Theory 22:25

1y ago22:25

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John Bowlby's attachment theory is a vital component to the phenomenon of Parental Alienation. Attachment is a key to understanding the onset and the consequences of Parental Alienation. This is an introduction to this aspect of Parental Alienation.Kirjoittanut Dr. Bob Evans

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Parental Alienation: From Couch to Courtroom and Beyond

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Episode 5: The Lucifer Effect 26:27

1y ago26:27

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This is a presentation reviewing Dr. Philip Zimbardo's book The Lucifer Effect: Understanding How Good People Turn Evil and how this work is related to the phenomenon of Parental Alienation.Kirjoittanut Dr. Bob Evans

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Parental Alienation: From Couch to Courtroom and Beyond

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Episode 4: The Role of Attachment in Parental Alienation Cases 18:33

1y ago18:33

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Attachment or bonding is a critical process for humans. It determines how we interact with the world, not only as we develop into adults, but it plays a significant role in our ability to parent later on in life.Kirjoittanut Dr. Bob Evans

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Parental Alienation: From Couch to Courtroom and Beyond

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Episode 3: Do We Believe The Children? 25:43

1y ago25:43

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This episode focuses on Dr. S. Ceci's work on memory and memory contamination.Kirjoittanut Dr. Bob Evans

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Parental Alienation: From Couch to Courtroom and Beyond

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Episode 2: Research on False Memories 16:37

1y ago16:37

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This episode discusses research on false memories. Topic includes a case Elizabeth Loftus, Ph.D. was involved in regarding the wrongful conviction of Steve Titus and how false memories contributed to his incarceration.Kirjoittanut Dr. Bob Evans

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Parental Alienation: From Couch to Courtroom and Beyond

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Episode 1: Intro to Parental Alienation 35:47

1+ y ago35:47

35:47

This first episode introduces the concept of Parental Alienation and begins to explain how the phenomenon can happen in children who previously have had a loving, attached relationship with a parent.Kirjoittanut Dr. Bob Evans

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btg-dad; battling parental alienation

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Happy Birthday Message to 'B' 0:48

3+ y ago0:48

0:48

Due to parental alienation btg-dad is unjustifiably denied a relationship with any of his children. This is due to the illegal actions and behaviours of the other (resident) parent. The family justice system has threatened to put the other parent in prison if they do not permit a relationship between btg-dad and their children. However the family j…

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btg-dad; battling parental alienation

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I Have Four Children 4:54

3+ y ago4:54

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A heartbreaking account of a mother's experience of parental alienation. For more podcasts on parental alienation go to btgdad.com.

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btg-dad; battling parental alienation

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How Much Abuse Should A Child Have To Take? 6:31

3+ y ago6:31

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An anonymised story of alienated children within the family justice system. A family justice system that openly fails to safeguard children against harm. For more information on parental alienation go to btgdad.com.

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btg-dad; battling parental alienation

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Parental Alienation and The Three Wise Monkeys 6:20

3+ y ago6:20

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An alienated parent's experience of the flawed system that is the family justice system. For more information on parental alienation go to btgdad.com.

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btg-dad; battling parental alienation