205: Jiu Jitsu Belt Promotions: Imposter Syndrome, Unworthiness, and Expectations

Beauty and the Gi: Gripping Conversations about Jiu-Jitsu and Life

BJJ promotions bring a lot of big feels with them. We're discussing the gamut of Jiu Jitsu feelings in this episode from imposter syndrome to feeling passed over.

Promotions in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu are more than just milestones; they are reflections of personal growth, dedication, and your unique journey. Embracing the process and finding value beyond the belts creates a happier Jiu-Jitsu experience.

The Highlight Reel

(00:00) Intro and the feels that come along with BJJ belt promotions (01:02) BJJ belt promotions and imposter syndrome (04:48) Why are you doing Jiu Jitsu - is it for the belt? (06:01) What to do when you feel like you’re getting passed over (07:35) The danger of comparing yourself to someone else (11:00) What to do when you don’t feel worthy of your new BJJ belt (12:00) The difference between “Act as if” and “Fake it till you make it” (13:57) Managing expectations and goals in alignment with personal life choices (15:46) But do you REALLY want to work that hard for it?

How did you feel about your last promotion? Let us know in the comments or DM us @beautyandthegipodcast on Instagram.

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