Sean "Diddy" Combs’ Parties Allegedly Enforced Strict Appearance Rules Amid Abuse Allegations

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Sean "Diddy" Combs, the hip-hop mogul now facing multiple allegations of sexual abuse and trafficking, reportedly maintained strict rules around the appearance of women attending his parties. Party organizers were allegedly instructed to deny entry to women weighing over 140 pounds, even carrying scales in their cars to enforce the rule, according to an unnamed organizer who spoke to the *New York Post*. Exceptions were allowed only if the woman was "really tall."
These exclusive parties, often linked to major events like the Super Bowl and MTV Music Awards, reportedly devolved into so-called “freak offs,” sex-fueled after-parties where federal prosecutors allege widespread sexual abuse took place. According to the U.S. District Attorney’s office, Combs would drug, physically abuse, and film attendees without their consent, threatening to ruin their careers by releasing explicit footage if they did not comply with his demands.
In recent weeks, more than 150 alleged victims, including both men and women, have come forward, with over two dozen civil suits filed against Combs. Among the most serious accusations, one woman claims she was only 13 years old when Combs allegedly drugged and raped her at a "freak off." Another organizer confirmed that they never asked female guests their age, stating, “It was don’t ask, don’t tell,” and adding, “At the time, I was really young myself, and I honestly thought that we weren’t asking their age because of drinking laws.”
Combs, now 54, was arrested on September 17 on charges of sex trafficking and racketeering. He has pleaded not guilty to these charges, which allege that he coerced women into engaging in sexual acts over extended periods, sometimes lasting days. A spokesperson for Combs’ legal team has reiterated that he denies all allegations.
The physical standards for female attendees reportedly went beyond weight. The organizer speaking to the *New York Post* revealed that guests could not have visible "flab" or cellulite, could not be heavily tattooed or pierced, and were expected to have long hair, wear stiletto heels, and show cleavage.
The organizer explained, “I never stayed around for the freak offs and had no idea that these girls were expected to have sex with people.” The allegations paint a disturbing picture of a culture of exploitation surrounding Combs’ parties, adding to the scrutiny surrounding the former music mogul.
Until his trial, which is scheduled for May 5, 2025, Combs is being held at the Metropolitan Detention Center in Brooklyn, where he shares a cell with convicted crypto scammer Sam Bankman-Fried.
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