We Belong (just like Pat Benatar said)

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What does belonging mean to you?
As a definition, it's an affinity for a place or a situation. It can be a feeling that you can be yourself that you're loved welcomed. That you'd be missed if you were away.
It's also a feeling of security and support we feel when there a sense of acceptance, inclusion, and identity for a member of a certain group. It is when an individual can bring their authentic self to the table and feel like themselves.
Ladies Like Us was created as a place where feel that sense of belonging.
But here's the thing,,, belonging is a two way street and an inside job.
How?
Otherhood, or childless not by choice individuals often feel uninvited to the table by society at large. But more often than not, it's the internal "otherness" we are bringing into the room that makes us feel "other", rather than the majority actually pointing at us and telling us we are other. There are plenty of groups you don't want to belong to. When you aren't invited to these groups, you literally don't give an F. Why? It holds no heat for you because the values of that group don't matter to you.
Others--It makes total sense to get triggered by this and have belonging become a difficult subject... But it doesn't have to stay that way.
The biggest shift you can experience, is to become clear on where and when you feel a sense of belonging. And bring that back to yourself. How are you creating belonging inside yourself? What is the sense of belonging you can take with you anywhere? You can literally create the experience of belonging.
Learn a quick exercise to bring you back to yourself.
Coming back to yourself helps unhook you from outside influences which are constantly fluctuating and distorting you from your true belonging and wholeness.
You belong. You are whole. You are perfect, just as you are.
XOXO
Linda