185. How Not to Come Across As Critical

The Reconnection Club Podcast

Some estranged adult children go no contact because they say their parents are too critical. Has your adult child made this complaint?

Are you frustrated because you just don't see what they're seeing? Does it seem like your adult child is too sensitive, and you're walking on eggshells because you never know what's going to make them feel criticized?

Or do you recognize what they're talking about, but can't seem to change the dynamic?

This episode is for anybody accused of being critical towards adult children, spouses or others.

In an interesting thesis, Tina Gilbertson suggests what might be going on that's coming across as criticism, and what you can do about it.

Changing relationship dynamics takes time. But if you know where to begin, you can get started today even if your adult child isn't currently in contact.

For information on why adult children become estranged (or "go no-contact") and what parents can do about it, read Tina's book, Reconnecting With Your Estranged Adult Child.

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