04: Redefining Intimacy with Tony DiLorenzo

Tony Stark's Hero Up Podcast

Welcome to another episode of Hero Up Podcast. Today, we're joined by Tony DiLorenzo, who, along with his wife Alisa, runs One Extraordinary Marriage. They help Christian couples create extraordinary marriages using their Six Pillars of Intimacy framework.

Key Points Covered:

1. The Six Pillars of Intimacy Framework:
   • Emotional Intimacy: Building closeness through open communication and emotional connection.
   • Physical Intimacy: Non-sexual touch and physical closeness that enhances the bond.
   • Financial Intimacy: Transparency and teamwork in financial matters.
   • Spiritual Intimacy: Shared faith and spiritual practices that bring couples closer.
   • Recreational Intimacy: Enjoying activities and hobbies together.
   • Sexual Intimacy: Prioritizing a healthy sexual relationship.
2. Intimacy Beyond Sex:
   • Intimacy is about connecting deeply in all areas of the relationship, not just sexually.
3. Marriage as Society's Foundation:
   • Strong marriages positively impact the community and society as a whole.
4. Charging for Services:
   • Charging for their services increases the value and impact of their work, helping more couples.
5. Balancing Work and Personal Life:
   • Setting boundaries and prioritizing relationship time is crucial for entrepreneurs.
6. Scheduling Sex:
   • Scheduling sex can enhance spontaneity and prioritize sexual intimacy.
7. Influential Book:
   • 'Intimacy Ignited' transformed Tony and Elisa's understanding of intimacy and communication.
8. Personal Growth and Resilience:
   • Believe in yourself and your capabilities.
   • Embrace challenges and learn from failures instead of running away.
   • Express love and appreciation even when it's difficult.
   • Be honest and vulnerable to foster personal growth.
9. Mindset:
   • Replace negative thoughts with positive affirmations.
   • Focus on building strong relationships and being present with loved ones.
   • Use past experiences as stepping stones for growth.
   • Strive for greatness and impact in all areas of life.

Tony DiLorenzo's insights on marriage, personal growth, and resilience remind us that intimacy is multifaceted and foundational to a thriving relationship. Embrace the challenges, learn from failures, and strive to build strong, loving connections in all areas of your life. Until next time, keep heroing up!

Connect with Tony DiLorenzo:

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonymdilorenzo/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mrtonydilorenzo/

Connect with ONE Extraordinary Marriage:

• Website: https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oneextraordinarymarriage/
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