44: Molar pregnancy with Michelle Marie McGrath

Unclassified Woman

Welcome to a special episode! Today the tables are turned and I’m being interviewed by my close friend Mariana Rudan.

I met Mariana when I first arrived in Sydney years ago and we worked together, and she’s been a close friend ever since. She’s a journalist, presenter, newsreader, singer songwriter, travel lover, mother of two adorable children, and an amazing cook! She also speaks a few languages, so is a very talented lady.

Sharing a little of my personal story seemed like a great way to mark the first year of the podcast and to celebrate International ChildFree Day, which is August 1.

Ready?

What you’ll hear in this episode:

• Michelle’s pregnancy a few years ago, about which she had always felt ambivalent and resistant to the assumption of 'having to have children'.
• At 10 weeks, she knew something was wrong.
• Diagnosis: “molar pregnancy”—abnormal cell growth in the uterus, when the embryo doesn’t develop, but the placenta keeps growing.
• How a molar pregnancy is linked to a pregnancy-related cancer.
• How the pregnancy was a catalyst for ending Michelle’s marriage.
• The reason for the title of the podcast
• When women don’t follow the “normal” script of life
• How judgment of women has played out in the media recently.
• The feedback Michelle has received from the show over the past year.
• “We all have a different story—and that’s OK.”
• The incorrect assumption that every woman feels the “clock ticking” when Michelle hears all the time from women, who never have that experience.
• The statistics: Almost 25% of women over 40 don’t have children, and the numbers are steadily increasing worldwide. Around a third of couples in Australia don't have children.
• The many factors that play into the decision not to have children.
• “Every woman’s path is unique to her.”
• How society can change the perceptions and stop the judgment by supporting the choices of ALL women.
• Michelle’s current relationship and playing the role of stepmother.
• No right or wrong---it all comes down to individual beliefs and value systems
• “No children” doesn’t mean “no responsibilities” and often childless or childfree women can feel taken for granted in other areas of their lives.
• Opportunities to channel creative energy in a different direction.
• What do you love? What makes you angry? Where do you feel there is injustice? What are you curious about? What brings out the best in you?
• What if YOU are the one person in your circle that’s meant to create a different path that inspires others and opens their hearts and minds to a different possibility?

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