Ep 21 with Mike Watts, the One about Conscious Men, pt 2 (what's a panty dropper?!)

Fiftysomething Love | Everything Dating, Sex, Love, Men, Health & Marriage for Women Over 50

This is Diane Brandon Moody, a dating coach for people over 50. Join us today as I explore the topic of conscious men with Mike Watts. He's married to Kate Northrup, is a co-founder of their company together and the father to two daughters. He's the first guy to appear as a guest on FiftySomething Love and the first person much younger than 50.
What's a panty dropper?! Listen and we'll finish the thought from the first episode.
I encourage women to encourage the men in their lives to listen.
Have a conversation, a real one without distractions, talk about the future.
Don't get stuck in the how.
The super power is in the discomfort.
The panty dropper is learning how to listen and apologize, but women need to quit apologizing all the time.
He genuinely apologized for something he did wrong. Usually when he's mad, it's about him, not "you." He felt like apologizing might be weakness.
Discusses relationship to time, end of life and where healing needs to take place.
Dudes, you can learn to apologize correctly and we don't have to fix everything.
What do you want? It helps give guidance.
Discussing polarity. For men, find men to work things out with and the same with women.
If men would ask questions of women they meet, they are automatically up several notches.
Talking about getting to know people dating.
Asking my list of favorite questions.
Parting words of wisdom. Have a lot of grace for each other. Become the person you want to be with! "I am the only one I can be in charge of." How do I show up in the world? Who are you hanging with?
www.dianebrandonmoody.com/50-places to find a list of 50 places to meet people over 50.
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