Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your tween (or any age kid) about this important part of life? You are in the right place. I’m Amy Lang, a sex and parent educator, and in my frank (really frank), opinionated, and full of swears advice-column style parenting podcast, I answer real questions from real parents about the talks. I also provide topic-specific scripts so you can sound like a pro. Most episodes are a potlu ...
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Crazy sex-talk on the playground and at lunchtime!
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So long and thanks for all the calls! Plus 20 tips for the sex talks from Sex Talks with Tweens -- Episode 200
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Librarian needs script for teachers who are complaining about sex ed books and lesbian moms need to buy condoms for their kid and need some pointers -- Episode 199
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How to make all your convos with your kids short and sweet! With Mary Willcox Smith -- Episode 198
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! My guest star Mary Willcox Smith! Her book, The MicroStep Method for the Overwhelmed Parent is terrific! Get a free chapter here. BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and …
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! Health officials recommend more syphilis testing after U.S. newborn cases skyrocketed in 2022 What are STDs? BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other reso…
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Boy masturbating in mom's bedroom; should you buy condoms in front of your kids; and is a body pillow OK for my teen? -- Episode 196
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! Good old Amaze has great videos on masturbation (and more)! Show your kids ages 9+. Masturbation Females and Masturbation Birth Control Basics: Condoms, The Pill and The Patch Anime Body Pillows! Check some out here. BBK B…
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes! The Meaning of Sex Positivity, Explained - My pal and colleague Nadine Thornhill is interviewed for this article! She's fab. Check her out here. Peggy Orenstein BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & Ho…
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The Valentines Edition: Telling a 6 year-old they can have a "girlfriend" as long as they get good grades; helping tweens navigate crushes; and are trans kiddo romantic sleepovers damaging? -- Episode ...
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even som…
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Sugar dating with Casey O'Roarty and Christy Keating -- Episode 193
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! Joyful Courage with Casey O'Roarty The Heartful Parent with Christy Keating BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full …
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Neurodivergent kid struggles with impulse control and gal can't keep her hands out of her pants -- Episode 192
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! Helping Women Period - provides FREE period products for homeless and low-income bleeders. BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube c…
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How to tell adults to respect your kids' body-boundaries -- Episode 191
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes!Kirjoittanut Amy Lang, MA
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! 31 Too Real Tweets about Parents Having 'The Talk' with Their Kids - Huffington Post BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel…
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even som…
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! These folks do a great job of explaining the two-spirit identity. A terrifc list of books for kids and teens! Two-Spirit and Indigiqueer Children’s and YA Book Lists BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say…
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! 31 Too Real Tweets about Parents Having 'The Talk' with Their Kids - Huffington Post Sugar Dating podcast BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resourc…
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4-year-old obsessed with private parts and a funny story about getting caught in the act -- Episode 188
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! RAINN.org - To find a child advocacy center in your area Consent Parenting for support for surviors. Consent Parenting for support for surviors. Savvy Parents Safe Kids for general info to keep kids safe. BBK Bookstore is …
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A fetus isn't a baby and gay marriage doesn't mean people will marry their pets, idiot! -- Episode 186
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Kiddo thinks he isn't horny enough and the connection between sex talk freak out and porn exposure -- Episode 184
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! What's wrong with a lack of interest in or desire for sex? Nothing. Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What…
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! Working the kinks out BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex…
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Talking with neurodiverse kids about masturbation and what to do if your kiddo REALLY doesn't want to talk about sex -- Episode 182
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! If your kid is neurodiverse and you’d like to be part of my focus group and get on my special newsletter list, send me an email. Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great B…
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The top 3 STIs and how to talk about them -- Episode 181
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! What Are the 3 Most Common STIs? STDs and HIV (from Amaze.org for kids age 10+) BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My YouTube channel is f…
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9-year-old is pushing boundaries with clothes and makeup, how to handle anime with a teen, and a funny sex talk story --Episode 180
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode’s notes! Check out my Instagram How to Talk to Your Daughter About Her Clothes Celebrate Your Body book Common Sense Media Assasination Classroom - watch here BBK Bookstore is here Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It…
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In this episode, Amy assigns a bit of homework. When is it okay for someone to have sex? You have to be able to answer this question for yourself before you can help your kids find the answer. Resources: My book: Birds & Bees & Your Kids: A Guide to Sharing Your Beliefs about Sexuality, Love, & Relationships GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leav…
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Should younger teens be put on birth control and kid majorly breaks down (and shuts down the talks) after sex ed at school -- Episode 178
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In this episode, Amy answers a question about when to start birth control and offers help for a parent whose kid has shut down after sex ed at school. Resources: Learn more about Christy Keating and her amazing work at The Heartful Parent Collective. Safety of oral contraceptives for teenagers Amaze.org Every Body Curious GOT A QUESTION? Anything g…
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In this episode, you'll learn how to find a therapist for your child if they have been porn exposed. Resources Join the postcarding movement! Safer Society Press to find a provider in your area if you have concerns about sexual abuse or porn exposure. GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-9…
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Sex is on the table for 15-year-old kid with first girlfriend and kid watching "breast spanking" videos -- Episode 176
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In this episode, Amy answers a question from a mom about her 15 year-old and his interest in sex. Also, Amy offers advice to a parent who is concerned about her 12 year-old who is watching porn. Resources Join the postcarding movement! My dated (2014) book for teens Dating Smarts: What Teens Need to Know to Date, Relate or Wait! Helps with values c…
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain how a vagina should smell. Great article on vaginal smells The Body Drama Book has great info about female bodies and more - including a bunch of photographs of different vul…
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Porn exposed kiddo acting out and mom's abuse triggering her. Daughter cries when mom tries to talk to her. -- Episode 174
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy answers questions from the mail bag about porn exposure and how to talk with a kiddo who is distraught by the talks. Resources: Book: Good Pictures, Bad Pictures Amaze.org Other resources: BBK Bookstore is here My new book!…
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain emergency contraception. Effect of levonorgestrel emergency contraception on implantation What is EC and How Does it Work? Info from the World Health Organization Resources M…
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Kid buys tubular masturbation assistant and how to explain teen sister's pregnancy to her 8-year-old sibling -- Episode 172
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy answers questions about how a mom should handle a kid who bought a tubular masturbation assistant. Also, how to explain teen sister's pregnancy to her 8-year-old sibling Resources: Babeland has great sex toys! Feminist and …
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain what a midwife is. Resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips t…
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Mom overhears gay son say he's going to 'slut his way through high school' and questions from kids with special guest star Rowena from Amazing Me! -- Episode 170
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here Resources: Check out the Amazing Me site Rowena's IG account is fab! Other resources: My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful…
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks about how to explain 69 to your kiddos. Resources How do you have oral sex? From Planned Parenthood - don't let the title freak you out! Also, throw a little cash their way if you can afford it! …
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Phubbing and birth control for teens -- Episode 168
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy gives advice on phubbing (and why not to do it) and also talks about the hows, whens, and whys of birth control for teens. Resources: Parental Phubbing Leaves Kids Feeling Ignored and May Increase Depr…
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F-you detrans movement; explaining Mx. to a preschooler, and navigating friends' phones -- Episode 167
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy gives advice on talking to a kiddo about a new teacher with the Mx. prefix. She also helps a mom whose 10-year-old doesn't have a phone when all of the 10-year-old friends do. Resources: The Trans "Det…
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy explains what being a lesbian means. Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to H…
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REPLAY - Alternatives to porn: The Joy of Sex! The Joy of Gay Sex! The Lesbian Sex Bible! -- Episode 165
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REPLAY - Gay guy and his gal-pal sexually bullied by 10-year-olds. True story. -- Episode 164
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy interviews two college students about their weird experience with a group of young kids. Show notes: Be a Positive Bystander What is Sexual Bullying and Why Do Kids Engage in It? Other resources My new…
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Gay Pride Episode! -- Episode 163
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REPLAY - A 13-Year Old With a Newly Transgender Friend... Who He Kissed Before, A 9 Year Old Who Wants to Dress Sexy, and Explaining Rape Scenes in Movies -- Episode 163 GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy gives advice to a mom who wants…
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about the term 'slut'. List of sexual slang terms from Bark BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news lette…
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Personal baggage but still needing to do the sex talks. And comments about kids' bodies -- Episode 161
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks to a parent who is worried about their past experiences with their own sex education creeping into their talks with their kids. Amy also gives advice to a parent who is worried that her partner, …
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about medication abortion, plus a story about a never-ending period. Great video for kids about medication abortion BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It…
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Ejaculate Responsibly! And vasectomies --Episode 159
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about the book, Ejaculate Responisbly. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 T…
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Guest Star! Questions from kids and more with Rowena from Amazing Me! -- Episode 158
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks with Rowena from Amazing Me, who provides sex education resources for families and schools. Check out the Amazing Me site Rowena's IG account is fab! Article: Empathy in children BBK Bookstore is here Other resources …
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about IVF. Books for kids about kids concieved through fertility treatments BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up f…
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Ganged by the Ski Patrol and parents on different pages about the talks -- Episode 156
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 BBK Bookstore is here In this episode, Amy talks to a mom about what to do after her young son gets ahold of a racy book on Kindle Unlimited. Also, how to handle the talks when parents disagree on how to have them. If you want to check it out (…
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Guest Star! First Period Pointers with Liz from Raising Flora -- Episode 155
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks with Liz from Raising Flora, who offers first period pointers for kids and caregivers. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips…
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks about the book, Our Bodies, Ourselves. Our Bodies, Ourselves Today BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my new…
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Guest Star! Emily Cherkin talks about how to get a grip on screen time -- Episode 153
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy talks with The Screen Time Consultant, Emily Cherkin, about ways to help your kids manage their screen time. Screen Time Consultant - check out Emily's freebies: Top 3 Tech-Intentional Tips Webinar and her eBook "7 Ingredie…
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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy explains IUDs. BBK Bookstore is here Other resources My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips! Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees…
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