The Self Development Collective is a personal development podcast where I share my experiences and inner work. I share ideas and strategies to support us in grief, the inner critic, boundaries, people-pleasing, and relationships. Shop our self development & self help worksheets here // https://selfdevelopmentcollective.com/shop
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The next Q&A episode is up. This listener sought guidance on what to do with their life and where to start. In this episode, we delve into practical advice and reflective questions designed to guide you toward a more prosperous and fulfilling life. 🚀 Key Insights: ✨ Explore the vision of a truly prosperous life and how it aligns with your goals and…
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Q&A Feeling Like We’re Getting Nowhere, Dreams Not Going To Plan
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Q&A Feeling Like We're Getting Nowhere, Dreams Not Going To Plan ☁️❌ Join me in this Q&A episode where we tackle the question many of us grapple with: Am I on the right life path? We explore the rollercoaster of emotions that come with pursuing a dream, especially when faced with rejection and setbacks. I share some personal insights and practical …
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Q&A: Setting Emotional Boundaries & Feeling Guilt
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In this episode, I address a powerful Q&A from a listener about navigating emotional boundaries, particularly with a narcissistic presence. 🛡️✨ Join me as I share practical steps and draw from my journey, offering strategies to start setting emotional boundaries and working with the weight of guilt. 🚀 Key Insights: Why emotional boundaries can be t…
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The Inner Critic, Feeling Judged & Taking On Criticism
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In this video, I discuss the challenges of dealing with feedback and the inner critic when we try to put ourselves out there. I share my personal experience of receiving feedback that questioned the combination of my grief coaching and life coaching work. I explore the dilemma of choosing between different aspects of myself and the fear of being ju…
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Finding Meaning In Life With Grief and Loss // Living With Loss & Finding Meaning
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Finding Meaning In Life With Grief and Loss. In this episode, I share my experience and life advice on finding meaning in life with grief and loss. I share my experience in coping with grief and loss and how to find meaning in life by using the experience to further fuel us in living purposefully with the legacy of our loved ones. Coping with grief…
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Does Grief Ever Feel/Get Better? // Coping With Grief And Loss In this short episode, I discuss whether grief ever feels or gets better. At the beginning of my grief journey, I kept wondering, "Will this ever get better?". Coping with grief & loss can feel so overwhelming and exhausting that it's common for us to wonder if it will always be like th…
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Coping With Grief // Acceptance Stage of Grief // Does It Ever Get Easier?
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Coping With Grief // Acceptance Stage of Grief // Does It Ever Get Easier? In this episode, I chat through one of the grief stages that I struggled with the most - acceptance. Thinking of the grief stages after the death of a loved one gives us a sense of direction. But the grief stage of acceptance is one I struggled to cope with. In this episode …
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How To Grieve // What Helps Me Cope With Grief During Milestones & Anniversaries
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How To Grieve // Milestones & Anniversaries In this episode, I share ways to grieve and cope with grief when it comes to milestones and anniversaries. Everyone’s grief is different, and every experience is different. So this episode isn’t about how you should grieve but suggestions that have helped me learn how to grieve a death during milestones a…
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Grief Stages After Death // Stages I Wish I’d Heard Earlier (Not The 5 Stages of Grief)
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Grief Stages After Death // Stages I wish I’d Heard Earlier (Not The 5 Stages of Grief) The five stages of grief were the first thing I thought of when I started my grief journey and was trying to figure out how to grieve. After reading more about coping with grief and dealing with grief, I came across two ideas on grief stages after death that res…
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No Motivation To Do Anything? Steps For When Your Feeling Burnt Out!
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No Motivation To Do Anything? Steps For When Your Feeling Burnt Out! In this episode, we talk about how to overcome burnout and also how to avoid burnout! If you’re feeling exhausted and tired all the time, then there’s a good chance you’re burnt out! In this ep, I share my personal experience of having no motivation to do anything and what I reali…
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Mom Guilt // Advice On Feeling Mom Guilt In this episode, we get real on mom guilt. Mom guilt can be crippling! Whether you’re feeling mom guilt because you’re going back to work or feeling mom guilt because you’re having a moment to yourself! In this short, sharp episode I share a simple piece of advice and question that helps me to manage mom gui…
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Self Esteem Improvement // How To Improve Self Esteem & Self Confidence In 5 Mins!
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Self Esteem Improvement // How To Improve Self Esteem & Self Confidence This simple exercise is one way we can learn how to improve self confidence and self esteem. Self esteem improvement and learning what helps in improving self esteem and improving self confidence can be tricky because a lot of us think the answer is to focus on our achievements…
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Examples Of Self Esteem // Examples Of Self Confidence
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Self Esteem // Self Esteem Meaning & Example In this episode we cover the self esteem meaning & example! We cover examples of self esteem so we can truly understand what is self esteem and self confidence & how we can improve. If you’re trying to boost your self esteem or improve your self confidence but don’t actually know what is self esteem and …
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What Is Self Esteem & Self Confidence // Definition Of Self Esteem In this epsiode we answer the question “what is self esteem”. We share what is self esteem and what is self confidence and how they go hand in hand to define the meaning of self esteem. If you’re looking for a short video to explain self esteem meaning so you can figure out what sel…
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Smart Goal Setting // A New Smart Goal Acronym For Goal Setting
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Smart Goal Setting // A New Smart Goal Acroynm For Goal Setting Struggling with smart goal setting? Want to know what smart goals stand for? In this video I share my smart goal examples and a great smart goals acronym to help you in setting your smart goals. I share a smart goals worksheet page from my goal planner printable! This smart goal acrony…
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How To Set Boundaries In Relationships - How To Communicate Your Boundaries
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How To Set Boundaries In Relationships - How To Communicate Your Boundaries Learning how to set boundaries in relationships can be super challenging! One of the hardest parts when you’re learning how to set boundaries with your parents or how to set boundaries with friends is how to communicate those boundaries. In this episode, we cover how to set…
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Feeling Guilty/Bad About Setting Boundaries? Setting Boundaries In Relationships Advice
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Feeling Bad About Setting Boundaries? Setting Boundaries In Relationships Advice In this episode, we chat about setting boundaries and setting boundaries in relationships when we feel bad or guilty! One of the toughest things we can struggle with when setting boundaries in relationships is when someone consistently ignores or pushes the boundary. B…
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Do You Struggle With Positive Self Talk and Negative Self Talk?
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Do You Struggle With Positive Self Talk and Negative Self Talk? Do you struggle with positive self talk? Or do you struggle with negative self talk? In this episode we’re going to talk about negative and positive self talk and chat about self talk examples. I chat about how I’ve managed my negative self talk and how I’ve done that with becoming too…
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How To Find Your Interests In Life // How To Find Your Passion
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Do you ask yourself, “what am I passionate about? What am I passion about for a job” or “how Can I find My Passion” In this episode, we explore how to find your interests in life and how to find your passion! We cover one key thing that we can forget as adults when it comes to how to find your passion and how to find your interests in life. So if y…
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Boundaries With A Narcissistic Parent // Setting Boundaries With Toxic Parents Advice
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Do you struggle setting boundaries with a toxic or difficult parent? Setting boundaries with a narcissist can be challenging - but even more challenging when you have a narcissistic father or narcissistic mother. This episode covers setting boundaries with a narcissistic parent (narcissistic father or narcissistic mother). I share my personal exper…
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Grief & Grieving Process Advice // Finding Yourself Again
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Grief Advice // Finding Yourself Again (Healing After Grief, Breakup, Divorce) In this episode, I share raw and very personal grief advice on finding yourself and healing after loss. This advice is what has personally helped me in dealing with grief and loss. One of the hardest challenges after any grief experience is figuring out who we are again.…
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Emotional Intimacy Relationship Communication Advice For When You’re Feeling Disconnected
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Emotional Intimacy Relationship Communication Advice For When You’re Feeling Disconnected In this relationship advice podcast episode we chat about how to have a healthy relationship, improve intimacy and improve our relationship communication skills when we’re feeling disconnected from our partners! This is great relationship advice for women and …
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Must Know Relationship Advice // 5 Things That DRAIN A Relationship
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Must Know Relationship Advice // 5 Things That DRAIN A Relationship In this relationship advice podcast episode we discuss must know relationship advice! These 5 things show us how to have a healthy relationship and how we can improve our relationship communication. Shop our mental health worksheets here // https://mentalhealthresourcesco.com/shop …
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Relationship Advice After Having A Baby // Relationship Advice For Couples
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Relationship Advice After Having A Baby! This one is for all the couples who are worried about or currently struggling with relationship problems after having a baby! There is no doubt that challenges in your marriage after your baby or challenges in your relationship and marriage after your first baby can be really hard. The dynamics in the relati…
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Hard Decision? How To Make The Right Decision For You // Decision Making Advice
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Hard Decision? How To Make The Right Decision For You //Decision-Making Advice Sometimes we get faced with hard decisions and the toughest part is figuring out how to make the right decision! How do we figure out what the right decision for us is? If you struggling with decision making right now, this episode is for you! I share one piece of decisi…
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Feeling Like A Failure? Advice On How To Deal With Feelings of Failure
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Feeling Like A Failure // Dealing With Feelings Of Failure // Advice Have you tried something and failed? Are you feeling like a failure? I get you! In this episode, I talk about my failed product launch and how I managed feeling like a failure. I share with you simple advice that helped me when I was feeling like a failure. Whether you're feeling …
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How To Stop Comparing Yourself To Others
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How To Comparing Yourself To Others In this personal development episode, we chat about how to stop comparing yourself to others. Comparing ourselves to others is harder than ever because instead of comparing ourselves to the people we know, we now compare ourselves to others on social media too! People we don't even know! We cover: How to stop com…
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In this episode, I share one small thing we can do to increase our self-esteem and self-confidence. Choosing ourselves and living a life we love can be difficult when we struggle with low self-esteem and self-confidence. If you find yourself: Agreeing with people to be liked Struggling with people pleasing Find it hard to have authentic relationshi…
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Quick Relationship Tip To Improve Intimacy // Couple Relationship Advice
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Relationship Advice For Couples // The Power Of A Couple Bubble This is some of the best relationship advice for couples! This simple strategy or idea is one way to learn how to have a healthy relationship. I share one of the best relationship communication books in this relationship advice podcast episode! It’s a great self-help relationship book …
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How To Change Your Life & Mindset (In 3 Simple Steps)
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How To Change Your Life & Mindset (In 3 Simple Steps) In this episode, I cover 3 simple steps to take when you’re asking yourself how to change your life. These steps help us to change our mindset and change our life for the better. If you: Don’t know where to start when it comes to how to change your life Feel overwhelmed with all the information …
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How To Deal With Anxiety and Uncertainty During Major Changes In Life
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How To Deal With Anxiety and Uncertainty During Major Changes In Life // Dealing With Big Life Changes // Anxiety with change can be so challenging! Dealing with change, coping with big lief changes and dealing with the uncertainty of it all can be overwhelming. In this episode, I share how I manage anxiety with change as well as one idea that help…
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How To Say Sorry First (And How It Transforms Your Relationship)
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How To Say Sorry First (& How It Can Transform Your Relationship) // Relationship Communication Tips Learning how to say sorry isn't something we're taught! Whether we're learning how to say sorry to our girlfriend, boyfriend, best-friend, mum or dad it isn't a relationship communication skill that we're taught. In this episode we chat on a great p…
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How To Stop Arguing In A Relationship About The Same Thing
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How To Stop Arguing In A Relationship About The Same Thing Arguing in relationships can be tough! But arguing in relationship constantly about the same thing can be even tougher! In this episode we discuss one simple thing we can do to improve our communication in our relationships. This relationship advice can be applied to anyone arguing in relat…
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What Your Grief Might Look Like In 3 Years...
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In this episode we discuss what grief can look like in 3 years time. When someone is at the beginning of their grief journey it can be feel like there will never be a light at the end of the tunnel. In the hopes of bringing just a small bit of understanding to the grief journey 3 years in, I've shared: What I struggle with What has surprised me abo…
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The Roles & Labels Our Family Give Us (& How We Can Change Them)
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In every family there might be the sensitive one, the tough one, the challenging one, the responsible one! It's such a normal part of the family system to give one another labels and for each of us to live our lives in a mix of trying to meet the expectations of those labels or fight against them. In this episode we talk about: the roles and labels…
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Do You Take Yourself (And Your Dreams) Seriously?
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,Somewhere inside us we have a calling or a vision of what we want for ourselves... but what happens when we feel like we should put everything else first? What happens when we take our dreams and hopes less seriously because we don't receive the validation or confirmation by others to start taking it seriously? Most of the time, we wait until othe…
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How To Build Self Confidence In One Small Step
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Self-esteem and self-confidence are important things. They help us believe in ourselves and feel good about ourselves. When you have good self-esteem and self-confidence, you are better able to deal with the challenges that are thrown at you and this helps you to be more successful in life. You will feel more comfortable with yourself and this will…
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What To Do When You Feel Stuck? How To Get Unstuck
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We all have times when we feel like we are not making progress or like we are stuck. This can happen to us in our careers, in our health, our personal relationships, or just about any other area of our life. In this episode, I want to go through something that's helped me to learn how to get unstuck in certain areas in my life where I felt like I j…
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How To Overcome The Inner Critic
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Whether you're a musician, an artist, a writer, or even an entrepreneur, you would have experienced an inner critic. You know the voice that we have within ourselves that creates doubts, fears, and thoughts that we're not good enough whenever we're going through any kind of process! In this episode of self development collective, we're going to dis…
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1 Simple Way To Get Clear On What You Want
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In this world of too many distractions, sometimes, we can get distracted in our purpose and don't know what we want. Today's episode is all about figuring out what we want or getting clear on what we want. In this podcast, we go through a simple strategy or question that we can use when we start to feel resentful or when we feel like we're starting…
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4 Things To Do When We Struggle To Get Motivated
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Getting motivated can be a struggle! It can come in waves where at times, we'll be super productive and other times its like that fire has gone and it's no where to be found. If you find yourself in a bit of a rut and struggling to get motivated, have a listen! In this episode we share 4 things you can do when we struggle to get motivated! Shop our…
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Proof It’s Not Too Late To Become Who You Want To Be
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In this episode, I share great advice that was given to me when I told myself that it was "too late" or I was "too old" to go back to school again and restart my career. I also share stories of women who have overcome the limiting boundaries of age and time to achieve their version of success in becoming the person they want to be. So, if you have …
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How To Survive A Tough Day
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We all have tough days, we all faced a day in our life when we thought we might just not survive another day. Whether you're going through a grief process, you lost someone, going through a divorce, a loss of expectation, there's a lot of reasons for having a tough day. So, how do we survive those tough days when we really feel like we're strugglin…
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How To Make Change Feel LESS Overwhelming
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Change can feel overwhelming! Whether it's one change that feels HUGE or we have too many changes we'd like to make, creating change in our lives can easily make us feel overwhelmed and tired from the get-go. So how do we make change feel LESS overwhelming and WHY does it feel overwhelming. Why do we find it SO hard to change certain habits? Why is…
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How To Change Limiting Beliefs About Yourself
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Something that we all struggle with is Limiting beliefs. Limiting beliefs are so important because they're part of the subconscious that drives our actions and habits. Identifying these limiting beliefs and learning how to recognize and work with them as they come up is great work in helping us to overcome them! In this episode, I share two ways to…
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Steps To Start Changing (When You Don’t Know Where To Start)
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Steps To Start Changing (When You Don't Know Where To Start) We all get stuck in life! We all have things that we want to change and we all struggle to figure out what steps to start with when we want to change our lives. Sometimes we get overwhelmed with what to start with and sometimes in it's where to start. In this episode, I break down 4 simpl…
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How To Make A Decision With Your Head AND Your Heart
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When we make a decision how do we listen to our head AND our heart? We have SO much information around us now that making a decision can be tough and overwhelming. Whether we're making a decision on a relationship, a job, or another major life choice, we can often feel stuck between choosing between our head OR our heart. So how do we make a decisi…
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What To Do When Things Don’t Go To Plan
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Every one of us has a plan or an idea of how our life is going to be. We set goals and expect to achieve them in a certain way. BUT life doesn't always go to plan does it? For me, I never expected to live the life I'm living now. I often say to people, if someone had told me this was where I was going to be, I wouldn't have believed them. This is w…
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4 Steps To Set Boundaries With Controlling Family Members
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Are you tired of listening to your family tell you why something won’t work? Or maybe you’re exhausted from hearing their opinions on what you should do? We all have that special someone in our family that likes to control everyone and everything. Even if they’re well-intentioned, it can be tiring and frustrating to deal with their constant stream …
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How To Create A Core Values List
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When we think about creating change in our lives, a lot of us first think of goals. But I’ve found in my own journey that it wasn’t when I asked myself “what goals do I want” that my life changed, instead it was when I asked myself “who do I want to be”. This is something that I thought about right after my brother died but recently I got my hands …
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