Parhaat Self Compassion Podcastit (2024)

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Your Roadmap to a Life You’ll Celebrate Next Year 28:04

5d ago28:04

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Have you ever looked at the New Year looming ahead and thought, This is going to be my year! …but then by February, you’re already back in old routines, and your goals feel like a distant memory? Ugh, right? Been there, done that, and bought the T-shirt. What if, this year, instead of resolutions that fall flat, you tried something different? What …

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195. [Solstice 24-25] Solstice-inspired rest 21:49

2d ago21:49

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Happy Solstice! In this episode, I discuss what mean by solstice-inspired rest, why you should rest over the winter break, how to rest, and what to do if you find rest difficult. Overall, rest can do magic, but takes courage, especially for academics. I have a wish that you practice trusting the process.…

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Breaking the Overwhelm Cycle 25:22

12d ago25:22

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Have you ever felt like you’re drowning in a sea of tasks, projects, and holiday plans, unsure where to start or how to keep your head above water? Like you’re stuck in this loop of procrastination, fatigue, and self-judgment that only makes things worse? Why is it that we know what needs to be done, but overwhelm keeps us frozen or spinning in cir…

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Handling the Holidays - Novemeber 29:04

1M ago29:04

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Have you ever approached the holiday season with a mixed feeling - sort of a mix of “Yay the holidays!” and “Ugh, the holidays.” Today we’re addressing Thanksgiving specifically and looking at All. The. Things that comes with it - both from the emotional angle as well as tactically from the food angle. Thanksgiving doesn’t have to be a mine field i…

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Listen Again - How Your Brain is Like Google and How To Use It For Weight Loss 26:45

1M ago26:45

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Have you ever been caught in that cycle of self-doubt, worrying about what other people think and thinking that, “Maybe people don’t like me.” Or doubting if those extra pounds will ever come off. Or if you DO lose weight, then you worry if you’ll be able to keep it off. Does it ever feel like your brain is working against you and your goals? You’r…

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Listen Again - How Long Do You Want To Wait? 26:43

2M ago26:43

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Have you ever had the thought, “I have so much weight to lose. It'll take forever.”? Or maybe this one resonates a little more: “I do well for [fill in the blank amount of time] and then I fall back into my old habits. After a while I just say ‘screw it.’” Or here’s a doozy: “I should never have gained this weight. I feel broken.” Today we’re talki…

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Episode 170: Breaking the Cycle: 3 Secrets to Attracting Healthy Relationships 2:07:46

2M ago2:07:46

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Episode 170 is a complete audio recording of a Masterclass I recorded. Breaking the Cycle: 3 Secrets to Attracting Healthy Relationships Schedule a complimentary Love Awakening Audit here: https://calendly.com/lilli_bewley/loveaudit Lilli's Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz - Reveal your blocks to love & find your true love match. www.lillibewley.com/…

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"Don't get too excited" - Why we sabotage our success 38:10

2M ago38:10

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Have you ever found yourself finally making progress on your weight loss journey, only to have your brain swoop in with, “Don’t get too excited,” or “It won’t last”? You’re feeling great, but instead of celebrating, you’re already worrying about slipping back. Why is it that even when things go right, we can’t fully enjoy it? What if, instead of gu…

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The Endless Search for 'Enough' 27:13

2M ago27:13

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Have you ever felt like no matter what you do, it's just never enough? Like you’re constantly chasing this elusive “enoughness,” only to find it slipping through your fingers, no matter how hard you try or how much you give? Why is it that we keep looking for validation from others—whether it's in our careers, our relationships, or even how we look…

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194. Supporting grad student writing with Dr. Jen Harrison 41:17

2M ago41:17

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Dissertation coach, Dr. Jen Harrison, explains how certain cultural and structural issues prevent professors and institutions from fully supporting their grad students in their writing process. She names a number of issues including an "inside-outside" problem whereby academia does not want to accept help from those outside institutions. In the end…

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193. Leaning into the mess with Michelle Grosser 37:01

2M ago37:01

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Michelle Grosser describes her journey toward a more regulated nervous system, explains how to communicate safety to our bodies so that we feel more whole, more alive, and more intentional in our lives, and describes simple strategies for regulation. Find Michelle Grosser at https://michellegrosser.com/.…

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Self-Sabotage Uncovered: Why Your Brain Won’t Let You Become Who You Need to Be 26:34

2M ago26:34

26:34

Have you ever found yourself stuck in the same habits, desperately wanting to change but feeling like something deep inside is holding you back? You swear you'll finally lose the weight, but no matter how hard you try, it feels like some mysterious force is keeping you in place. Frustrating, right? But here's a question: Could it be that it's not j…

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192. A fuller expression of career with Dr. Martha Mitchell 25:51

3M ago25:51

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After a 27-year career in academia where she had been promoted to full professor, served as chair, as well as served as Associate Dean of Research at her institution, Dr. Martha Mitchell explains that she was ready for something new. Currently working as a manager at a national laboratory for approximately one year now, she has found the new work a…

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A unique spin on a timeless piece of wisdom 18:04

3M ago18:04

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Have you ever had a moment when you’re working on something or reading something completely unrelated to weight loss and your brain thinks “Oh wow, this could apply to weight loss too.” You may not experience that as often as I do, because in my brain, everything is an analogy for weight loss, but I had an interesting conversation with a client rec…

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Getting a Handle on Emotional Eating 34:42

3M ago34:42

34:42

Have you ever found yourself reaching for that extra snack, binge-watching TV, or avoiding exercise, and wondering, “Why am I doing this?” You know these behaviors aren’t helping, but somehow, you can’t stop. A lot of the time the real reason behind all of this is that you’re avoiding your feelings. And not just avoiding them—maybe you’re so good a…

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191. Belonging to self with Dr. Azucena Verdín 45:23

3M ago45:23

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In this authentic and inspiring conversation, Dr. Azucena Verdín tells us about how she once did not like the ways she moved in the world, struggled with self-compassion, and easily spiraled into rumination. For a time, she believed leaving her academic career was the answer until she realized--after identifying the role anxiety was playing in her …

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190. [Equinox 2024] Tapping into Fall Season 18:58

3M ago18:58

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You're invited to feel into Fall 2024 and let the new season teach you something! In this episode, I acknowledge the heaviness of fall semester and describe how you can "tap" some of this heaviness away. As you widen your vision and see your life beyond your academic responsibilities and feel connected to something bigger, you are better able to we…

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This one skill creates more weight loss than any other 30:20

3M ago30:20

30:20

Have you ever found yourself staring at an empty plate, wondering, “Have I had enough, or should I go for seconds?” Maybe you’ve felt that little twinge of fear—what if I get hungry before the next meal? Or perhaps you just can’t shake the urge to keep eating, even when you know you’re full. Why is it so tricky to tune into our body's natural signa…

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Winning the Ups and Downs of Weight Loss 19:31

3M ago19:31

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Have you ever felt like you're pedaling uphill on your weight loss journey, only to find yourself slipping back into those old unhealthy habits? Why does it seem so easy to fall into the same patterns, even after you've made so much progress? The reason why is because we've been conditioned to believe weight loss is an all-or-nothing ride, where th…

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Stop Holding Yourself Back 36:33

4M ago36:33

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Have you ever felt like you were finally making progress with your weight loss journey, only to find yourself holding back, waiting for that "other shoe to drop"? You know, that fear that all your hard work is just a temporary blip on the radar? It's like your mind is playing a cruel trick on you, keeping you from fully embracing the positive chang…

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Celebrating 100 Episodes with Special Guest Corinne Crabtree 57:08

4M ago57:08

57:08

Have you ever had an idea for something that totally scared you and you were absolutely certain that the idea is way above your pay grade. But then there’s a little voice that says…what if I try? And of course immediately your rational voice comes back online and says “What are you thinking? That’ll never work. No one will listen to you.” And yet t…

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Episode 169: Women Waken with Whitney Walker 40:30

4M ago40:30

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Whitney Walker is the host of Women Waken Podcast, tarot reader, and licensed mental health therapist specializing in addiction, eating disorders, trauma, and spirituality. Connect with Whitney on IG: https://www.instagram.com/womenwaken/ The Women Waken Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7BHbXG9uSqxaBz5XrWNJ8z --- Support this podcast: https:/…

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The Urge Equation 22:27

4M ago22:27

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Have you ever stared at that tempting treat, your brain practically drooling with desire, and felt like a tug-of-war was happening inside your head? One side is screaming, "Just one bite!" while the other whispers, "Think of your goals." It's like your brain is having a personal wrestling match, right? It's that all-too-familiar struggle where your…

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Episode 168: Boundaries 101 with Lilli Bewley 30:32

4M ago30:32

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A solo episode today by listener request! Boundaries 101! _____ Schedule a complimentary Love Audit here: https://calendly.com/lilli_bewley/loveaudit Lilli's Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz - Reveal your blocks to love & find your true love match. www.lillibewley.com/quiz Support the show: https://anchor.fm/thelillibewleypodcast - Click on support. …

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Mind Over Munchies 32:41

4M ago32:41

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Have you ever found yourself staring at the fridge after a long day, feeling like a walking, talking zombie, and the only thing that sounds remotely appealing is a pint of ice cream? Yeah, me too. We've all been there - overwhelmed, exhausted, and reaching for comfort in the form of food. It’s like our brains are on autopilot, screaming, “I NEED RE…

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The Excuse Trap: Why We Make Excuses and How to Break Free 27:36

5M ago27:36

27:36

Have you ever had a plan to work out today, only to get caught up in things and you technically have time but somehow it just doesn’t get done? You know the drill, that pesky inner voice starts singing its excuse song on repeat: "I'm too drained," "Work was a nightmare," or the all-time favorite, "Maybe I'll just adult harder tomorrow." Ugh, excuse…

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Is Your Mindset Holding You Back? 31:42

5M ago31:42

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Have you ever felt like your brain is a broken record, stuck on a loop of negativity? You know, the kind that whispers things like, "This workout iss too hard, skip it. I should choose a salad but that’s so boring." Or the sneakier more insidious kind of self-talk like “I want to lose 50 lbs, that’ll take forever!” “I’m working so hard, and the sca…

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Episode 167: The Extraordinary Woman with Gabriella Taylor 45:18

5M ago45:18

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Gabriella Taylor, founder of Extraordinary Woman©, an elegant, bespoke coaching boutique in Montecito, CA, specializes in transformative journeys for women. With over 25 years of coaching experience, Gabriella blends psychology, spirituality, and cutting edge neuroscience to guide women who have a vision of making a positive difference—whether it’s…

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3 Crucial shifts to help you lose weight for the last time 23:43

5M ago23:43

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Have you ever known exactly what to do to lose weight but found yourself stuck on actually doing it? You know the drill: eat healthier, exercise more, but somehow it just doesn’t happen. It’s like there’s this invisible barrier holding you back. Why is it so hard to put those plans into action? In today's episode, we’ll cover the common pitfalls th…

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189. All that really matters with Dr. David Weill 29:11

5M ago29:11

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Dr. David Weill shares his story about quitting his job—at the prime of his career—as the Director of the Heart-Lung Transplant Program at Stanford. Wanting more balance and a more contemplative life, he says, “I had a real sense that it was time to go.” He now writes in the mornings and does consulting work with transplant hospitals in the afterno…

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Goal Weight: Are you thinking about it all wrong? 20:03

5M ago20:03

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Have you ever felt like your happiness was waiting for you on the other side of your goal weight? Have you ever believed that shedding those extra pounds will magically transform your life? Why does it seem like that elusive goal weight holds all the power over your joy and self-worth? In today's episode, we’re diving into the common struggle of ty…

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Feeling Stuck? 53:43

6M ago53:43

53:43

Have you ever felt stuck in a rut? Like when change comes knocking at your door, it can kinda leave you feeling down in the dumps. And maybe you find yourself convinced that things just won't work out? Why does change seem so hard, and why do we often feel like we're swimming against the tide? Today’s episode is kinda fun. Because on the day that t…

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Episode 166: Finding True Love (I’ve been Gatekeeping) with Lilli Bewley 24:39

6M ago24:39

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A solo episode about something that’s been on my heart for a minute. I’ve been gatekeeping about what it really means to find true love. _____ Schedule a complimentary Love Audit here: https://calendly.com/lilli_bewley/loveaudit Lilli's Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz - Reveal your blocks to love & find your true love match. www.lillibewley.com/quiz…

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188. Anything can happen with Dr. Yvette Martinez-Vu 58:40

6M ago58:40

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Dr. Yvette Martinez-Vu shares her childhood realization that anything can happen and discusses how this insight has shaped her career and life. She describes difficult times where she felt unwell in her work and in her body, explaining that in each situation--from burnout to a covid-inspired career pivot--she continually chose her own wellness and …

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187. Leading with your values with Dr. Katharine Stewart 41:20

6M ago41:20

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Dr. Katharine Stewart shares her story about choosing to leave her position as Sr. Vice Provost and return to faculty, explaining that while she loves her administrative work, she also loves (and misses) her work as a teacher and scholar. Katharine urges academics to let their values lead, to bring their whole selves to their work, to honor the car…

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Consistency: Myths and Misconceptions vs. Methods that Actually Work 24:39

6M ago24:39

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Have you ever felt like you're either on the wagon or off the wagon with your weight loss efforts, and the minute you stumble, it all comes crashing down? That all-or-nothing mindset can make every setback feel like a complete failure. Why is it that consistency sometimes feels so out of reach and struggling with it often leaves us feeling defeated…

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186. Academic branding with Dr. Sheena C. Howard 37:26

6M ago37:26

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Dr. Sheena Howard tells how the president of her institution called faculty into a room and announced the shut down of certain departments and the letting go of certain faculty. She describes the experience as scary and eye-opening, realizing that even though she was able to keep her job this time, that may not always be the case. From there, Sheen…

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Why Quitting is Easy and How to Keep Going 33:34

6M ago33:34

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Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you work, your goals still seem a million miles away? Like you’re stuck on a treadmill of all effort and no finish line in sight? Before long, the internal pressure that has been building caves under some straw that breaks the camel’s back and we throw in the towel before we even reach the goal. It’s frust…

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Don't Let Summer Derail Your Weight Loss 29:58

6M ago29:58

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Have you ever felt like your summer plans throw a wrench in your weight loss journey? Whether it's changing schedules, vacations, BBQs, or those irresistible seasonal treats, staying on track can feel almost impossible. How do you enjoy your summer fun without derailing your progress? It can feel like a tough balance to strike, but with a little pl…

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185. [Solstice 2024] Seasonal discernment 19:12

6M ago19:12

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Happy Solstice! This episode kicks off the Summer 2024 season. I describe the importance of using the solstice as a natural stepping stone toward your career wellness destination--a time where you can reflect on where you are and where you're going. I offer one strategy to doing seasonal discernment and invite you to try it on for yourself: block o…

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Why it's so easy to fall back into old habits 18:27

6M ago18:27

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Have you ever found yourself doing great with a new routine, only to slip back into old, unhealthy habits? It’s frustrating, right? Have you ever wondered why it's so easy to fall back into those old patterns, even when you’re determined to change? In today's episode, we’ll cover why our brains are wired to seek the familiar, which makes breaking o…

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No Cure For Being Human 22:51

7M ago22:51

22:51

Have you ever had a moment that makes you appreciate how good things are? I like to pay attention to synchronicities in life and I recently had a few that came in with the message that was telling me to pause and appreciate. It made me wonder about why our fear of pain—whether it’s losing someone we love or the fear of failure—often holds us back. …

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Episode 165: Heal Your Anxious Attachment with Jen Nurick 34:05

7M ago34:05

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Jen Nurick specializes in healing anxious attachment, attachment injuries and childhood trauma. She is a licensed Clinical Psychotherapist, Couple Therapist, Energetic Healer, and author of “Heal Your Anxious Attachment”. She is the founder and voice of Psychotherapy Central. She has been working in the healing space for over 20 years, combining Ea…

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People Pleasing 33:23

7M ago33:23

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Have you ever felt like your mental radar is constantly tuned into what would make other people happy rather than what you actually want? Like hypothetically, maybe Mom wants you and the family to come over for dinner this weekend. It would just break her heart if she wasn’t able to see you. But your spouse really doesn’t want to go and the kids ca…

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Episode 164: Attracting Emotionally Available Men with Lilli Bewley 21:47

7M ago21:47

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A solo episode today about How To Attract Emotionally Available Men Schedule a complimentary Love Audit here: https://calendly.com/lilli_bewley/loveaudit Lilli's Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz - Reveal your blocks to love & find your true love match. www.lillibewley.com/quiz Support the show: https://anchor.fm/thelillibewleypodcast - Click on suppo…

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I'm afraid to feel my feelings 37:41

7M ago37:41

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Have you ever been told “You’re too sensitive”? Have you ever felt like your emotions were just a little too much and too overwhelming to handle? Like you’re afraid to let your feelings be okay because deep down, you assume you're the problem? I mean, how embarrassing is it to cry in front of your boss, right? Pull yourself together, girl! (Oh wait…

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But what if I regain? 32:10

7M ago32:10

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Have you ever stepped on the scale, feeling proud of your progress, only to have that nagging voice in your head whisper, "But can you keep it off?" It's a familiar fear, isn't it? That sneaky worry that success might just be temporary, and those old habits will come creeping back in. But what if I told you there's a way to silence that doubt and l…

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Are you making decisions from a place or love or fear? 30:14

8M ago30:14

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Have you ever felt like you're stuck in a dieting hamster wheel, constantly chasing THE THING that will actually work, but you always end up feeling defeated? Why do we do that? Why don’t we trust ourselves to know how to eat? Imagine this: you're staring at the menu, torn between the salad and the burger. Is it because you genuinely want the salad…

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Episode 163: Trauma & Not Being Broken with Stacey Uhrig 35:40

8M ago35:40

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Stacey Uhrig is a Trauma Recovery Coach Building upon decades of experience supporting individuals through life's trials and my profound journey, I established Flip Your Mindset in 2020. Through personalized 1:1 coaching sessions, Stacey empowers her clients to perceive their struggles from a fresh perspective, fostering a sense of empowerment, pur…

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I just want to eat whatever I want, whenever I want 28:33

8M ago28:33

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Have you ever found yourself thinking “I just wish I could eat whatever I want, whenever I want”? Maybe you even remember a time when that seemed to be true. Ah the good ol’ days. Isn’t it funny how we seem to remember the past with rose colored glasses? But now a’days, if you even look at a hamburger you’ll put on 5 pounds. Ugh! Today we're diving…

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