E12 Be Seen and Get More: 8 Better Ways to Talk About Sex

Deeper Sex - A Sex Positive Podcast Exploring Fantasies And Boundaries

In this episode of Deeper Sex, we delve into the importance of communication in enhancing sexual relationships.

Drawing from our personal and professional experiences, we share practical tips on initiating open dialogues about desires, needs, and fantasies with partners.

As always we want to emphasise on creating a safe space for vulnerability, avoiding blame, and using various methods like scheduled talks, emails, and listening to shared content.

We also discuss overcoming fears and the transformative power that honest and empathetic communication can bring to relationships.

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02:37 Who we are and why we are telling you this

04:05 What you will learn today

04:45 This is for you if...

08:20 Deconditioning

09:52 Who has this fantasy?!

13:00 Tip 1: Let it flow

14:31 Tip 2: Don't blame

16:10 Creating a safe space to talk with your partner

18:07 It's sexy to shamelessly ask for what you need

19:14 Tip 3: Choose the "right" time for a conversation

20:23 Tip 4: Listen to content together

21:36 Ever talked about your partner's cervix?!

24:52 Tip 5: "Please can you help me to understand..."

26:48 Tip 6: Show that you're listening

28:21 Tip 7: Have an "exploratory" vs. a "decision-oriented" conversation

29:36 Tip 8: Write sexy emails to each other

34:37 Sexy time or no sexy time?

36:47 When in doubt, say what's on your mind!

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WHO IS WILL

Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.

WHO IS CHIARA

Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.

WHO IS ALLIE

Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.

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