"Kindness and Other Kinks" with Jon aka HiThereCatSuit

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Ep 11 - "Kindness and Other Kinks" with Jon aka HiThereCatSuit
This topic has been called life-changing discussing how to use kindness within scenes and how to be kind to your kinky self.

Jon has been an ambassador in his communities by bringing people from all over together to share connections and experiences. He bases success on one thing, kindness. Jon will discuss the difference between kind and nice and how that can make all the difference in the world in getting you the kind of partners and relationships you desire. Jon’s deep dive into being kind discusses power dynamics and how turning those around can make all the difference in how people see you. We will talk about bringing kindness into scenes, which can be a lovely change of pace to heighten intense scenes.

Jon aka HiThereCatsuit has been the host of the Authentically Kinky podcast since October 2020 with over 220 episodes. An avid writer on FetLife, Jon wrote a column about men and their unsolicited dick pics. The response led him to brainstorm with NookieNotes of Dating Kinky to create the podcast.

• Fetlife.com/HiThereCatsuit
• authenticallykinky.com
• x.com/hitherecatsuit
• instagram.com/hitherecatsuit

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1. "Kindness and Other Kinks" with Jon aka HiThereCatSuit (00:00:00)

2. Kindness and Other Kinks (00:05:38)

3. Impact of Kindness (00:07:56)

4. More Than Reframing (00:16:14)

5. Nice vs. Kind (00:24:25)

6. The Notebook (00:33:25)

7. Spill to Vanilla (00:50:44)

8. Never Met A Sadist That Wasn't Kind (00:57:41)

9. Final Thoughts (01:15:14)

10. Inside The Kinkster's Studio (01:19:24)