49. What Kind of Self-Talk Actually Helps You to Reach Your Goals?

Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation

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What kind of self-talk actually helps you to reach your goals?

What to do when people around you talk to you in unhelpful ways for you to reach your goals (including 3 specific strategies).

You deserve to be spoken to, by yourself and others, in a way that starts from a place of worthiness, love, empowerment, belief.

Start speaking to yourself the way you deserve NOW. And give yourself grace as you practice, of course.

You are WORTH IT.

Questions to answer for yourself:

• -What kind of self-talk is getting in the way of you learning to do life porn-free? (Watch out for shame-producing thoughts)
• -What kind of self-talk actually helps you to learn, progress, and grow?
• -Which people that you are around, make it easier to have the self-talk you want to have with yourself after being around them?
• -Which people make it harder? (Even if you’d least expect it, blind spots)

Danny Poelman is a certified life coach and helps guys stop looking at pornography (and be happy about it) and make their real life so good that porn becomes irrelevant. He created this podcast to help those who are struggling with porn in their marriage and lives, and who know deep down there's something "more" for them if they just learn the skill of doing life porn free.
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START WITH THIS: Access Free Webinar Training (click here)
Check out Danny's Instagram here: @dannypoelmancoaching
Ready to work with Danny? Schedule a free consultation here: Work With Me
Website: https://www.dannypoelman.com
Danny Poelman is a certified life coach and helps guys stop looking at pornography (and be happy about it) and make their real life so good that porn becomes irrelevant. He created this podcast to help those who are struggling with porn in their marriage and lives, and who know deep down there's something "more" for them if they just learn the skill of doing life porn free.