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Sisällön tarjoaa Dr. Liz McIngvale and Cali Werner, Dr. Liz McIngvale, and Cali Werner. Dr. Liz McIngvale and Cali Werner, Dr. Liz McIngvale, and Cali Werner tai sen podcast-alustan kumppani lataa ja toimittaa kaiken podcast-sisällön, mukaan lukien jaksot, grafiikat ja podcast-kuvaukset. Jos uskot jonkun käyttävän tekijänoikeudella suojattua teostasi ilman lupaasi, voit seurata tässä https://fi.player.fm/legal kuvattua prosessia.
In an era of social media fads and quick-fix solutions, anxiety and stress are on the rise. This raw and vulnerable podcast takes you through real personal journeys and clinical conversations about the increasing anxiety in today's world. Hosted by Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale and Cali Werner, licensed clinicians in the field, each episode provides tools to find calm in the chaos as they share detailed experiences moderated by leading experts. If you're overwhelmed by the motivational noise and looking for an authentic guide through the societal anxiety we all live with, hit subscribe. Anxiety: we live it, contribute to it, but together we can change it.
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In an era of social media fads and quick-fix solutions, anxiety and stress are on the rise. This raw and vulnerable podcast takes you through real personal journeys and clinical conversations about the increasing anxiety in today's world. Hosted by Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale and Cali Werner, licensed clinicians in the field, each episode provides tools to find calm in the chaos as they share detailed experiences moderated by leading experts. If you're overwhelmed by the motivational noise and looking for an authentic guide through the societal anxiety we all live with, hit subscribe. Anxiety: we live it, contribute to it, but together we can change it.
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×Welcome back to The Anxiety Society podcast! In today’s Q&A episode, Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale & Cali Werner tackle listener questions on a variety of topics related to anxiety, therapy, & life changes. Join us for a quick, fun, & informative discussion that offers valuable insights and actionable advice. In this episode, we cover: [00:01:12] Cali’s Anxious Moment: Navigating the anxieties of pregnancy + preparing for twins while managing a household with two toddlers. [00:02:16] Elizabeth’s Anxious Moment: Feeling like an imposter after agreeing to pace a three-hour marathon after recently sharing about a healthier relationship with running. [00:07:41] Rethinking New Year’s Resolutions: Moving away from external pressures & setting intrinsic goals for personal growth + quiet quitting your phone. [00:14:22] Listener Questions: How to know if you should switch therapists or programs, finding training for anxiety & OCD treatment, recognizing the early signs of anxiety, building motivation for treatment, addressing social anxiety in teens, & prioritizing mental well-being amid social pressures. [00:40:43] Clinical Growth Points in 2024: Cali + Elizabeth share their biggest learning points as clinicians, highlighting the importance of distress tolerance. Key Insights: Switching Therapists Isn’t Giving Up: It's okay to outgrow your therapist or treatment program. Look for noticeable change + improvement within 4-12 sessions. Advocate for yourself if you’re not seeing results. Quiet Quit Your Phone: Re-evaluate your relationship with technology + prioritize presence in your life. Set boundaries with your phone to free up time + energy for more fulfilling activities. Prioritize Preventative Mental Health Care: Don’t wait for anxiety to become a crisis before seeking help. Early intervention + coping strategies can prevent future escalation + improve overall well-being. Motivation for Treatment: A skilled clinician will work with you to identify your core fears, triggers, + goals to develop a personalized treatment plan that aligns with your motivations. Early Signs of Anxiety in Children: Look for disruptions in baseline behaviors related to eating, sleeping, school, + social activities. Early intervention can have a significant positive impact on long-term mental health. Addressing Social Anxiety in Teens: Removing sources of comfort and isolation (like excessive tablet use) can be necessary, though challenging, step in encouraging teens to develop social skills. Positive reinforcement from parents can help build motivation + confidence. Prioritizing Mental Well-Being Amid Social Pressures: Reflect on the social situations that drain your energy versus those that fill you up. Prioritize engagements that support your mental health and set boundaries to protect your well-being. Distress Tolerance as a Key Clinical Insight: Cali + Elizabeth emphasize the importance of distress tolerance in managing anxiety + other mental health challenges. Our society's decreased ability to tolerate discomfort contributes to heightened anxiety. Notable Quotes: “You can want to get better, but not want to do these really hard things. But as long as you know you're gonna have to do the hard things to get better, it's okay. Like, we can meet you there.” - Cali Werner "Nothing is scarier than living with untreated anxiety." - Elizabeth McIngvale “As a parent, I want you to think about, am I answering to my child right now, or am I answering to their anxiety and fear? And if you're answering to anxiety and fear, you're gonna stay stuck.” - Cali Werner Call to Action: We want to hear from you! Submit your questions for future Q&A episodes on our website at anxietysocietypodcast.com or email us at hello@anxietysocietypodcast.com . Subscribe to The Anxiety Society podcast on your favorite platform, leave a review, and follow us on Instagram @theanxietysocietypod for more anxiety-related content + community connection!…
Episode Overview: In this Valentine's Day couples episode, we explore the complex interplay of relationships & anxiety with special guest, Tyler, Cali's husband. Join us as we discuss how anxiety can impact relationships, communication strategies for couples, & the importance of self-reflection + growth. We also share personal stories + practical tips for navigating anxiety in relationships, including insights into Cali & Tyler's relationship journey. This real, raw, and unfiltered conversation offers valuable tools for strengthening your relationship while managing anxiety. Key Insights: Open Communication: Honest + open communication is key to navigating anxiety in relationships. Sharing your feelings + needs with your partner can create a stronger bond + understanding. Self-Reflection + Growth: Self-reflection is crucial for personal + relationship growth. Recognizing your role in conflicts + being open to change can dramatically improve relationship dynamics. Support vs. Accommodation: Providing support without accommodating anxiety is essential. Learning how to support your partner's journey without enabling unhelpful behaviors can foster resilience + independent coping. Finding Joy + Humor: Prioritizing joy + humor can strengthen relationships + provide relief from anxiety. Intentionally incorporating fun + laughter into your routine can make a positive impact. Couples Therapy: Couples therapy can be a valuable tool for improving communication + resolving conflicts. Seeking professional guidance can equip couples with the skills they need to navigate challenges effectively. Notable Quotes: "You grow through what you go through." - Cali "Guys' natural tendencies are to fix problems." - Tyler "Self-reflection is scary...but once you do it, your marriage is better because of it." - Cali Timestamps: [00:00:10] - Podcast Introduction [00:01:10] - Couple's Episode Introduction + Anxious Moments [00:08:46] - Cali & Tyler's Relationship Story [00:16:29] - How Anxiety Impacts Their Relationship [00:27:44] - Where Anxiety Shows Up Now in Their Relationship [00:41:59] - Tips + Tricks for Weathering Storms in Relationships [00:52:43] - Prioritizing Time Together Despite Busy Schedules Call to Action: Subscribe to The Anxiety Society Podcast on your favorite platform so you don't miss any new episodes! Leave a review + share your thoughts on social media using #AnxietySocietyPodcast. Connect with us on Instagram at @theanxietysocietypod for more anxiety-related content + resources. Visit our website at anxietysocietypodcast.com to submit your questions for the show + join our community. Let’s change our relationship with anxiety, together!…
Episode Overview: This episode explores the intricate connection between physical health, particularly gut health and hormonal balance, and its impact on anxiety and overall well-being. Dr. Elyse Martin (Cho), a certified nurse midwife and women's health expert, joins the podcast to discuss functional medicine and its role in addressing the root causes of anxiety, rather than just managing symptoms. She highlights the importance of understanding the body as an interconnected system and emphasizes the need for a holistic approach to health and wellness. Key Insights: Functional Medicine vs. Traditional Medicine (12:14): Dr. Martin explains the difference between functional medicine and traditional medicine, emphasizing the functional approach's focus on understanding the historical timeline of dysfunction within the body. The Microbiome and its Impact (13:25): The discussion delves into the microbiome, its role in overall health, and how dysbiosis (an imbalance in gut bacteria) can contribute to various health issues, including anxiety and depression. The Importance of Comprehensive Labs (33:43): Dr. Martin discusses the value of comprehensive lab testing to uncover underlying deficiencies and imbalances that might be contributing to health problems. Hormonal Health and Mental Well-being (16:54): The episode explores how hormonal imbalances, such as severe PMS or PMDD, can significantly impact mental health, often leading to heightened anxiety and mood swings. Impact of Modern Lifestyles (20:26): The conversation touches on how modern lifestyles, including constant information input, poor diets, and lack of self-care, can contribute to increased stress and anxiety. Collaboration Between Mental Health Clinicians and Functional Medicine Practitioners (39:51): The episode emphasizes the importance of collaboration between mental health clinicians and functional medicine practitioners to provide comprehensive care that addresses both the physical and mental aspects of well-being. Fertility, Postpartum, and Hormonal Health (41:47): Dr. Martin discusses the impact of hormonal and gut health on fertility, pregnancy, and the postpartum period, highlighting the importance of addressing these factors for overall maternal well-being. Supplementation and its Risks (36:39): Dr. Martin cautions against blind supplementation, emphasizing the need for personalized approaches based on individual needs and genetic predispositions. Notable Quotes: "We're all just kind of in this standard of care washing machine being tossed around, and we're getting tumbled out at the end, and we still don't really feel good." - Dr. Martin (09:16) "It's not normal to have significant mood changes prior to starting your cycle." - Dr. Martin (17:36) "It's all so intertwined. It's like this giant tumbleweed of things." - Dr. Martin (18:11) "Blind supplementation can be extremely dangerous and really detrimental for the system." - Dr. Martin (36:47) Call to Action: Connect with Dr. Martin: Learn more about Dr. Martin and her practice, The Hive, by visiting hivewomenswellness.com. Telehealth appointments are available for those in and outside of Texas. Subscribe and Review: Subscribe to The Anxiety Society podcast on your favorite platform and leave a review to support the show! Connect with Us: Visit our website: anxietysocietypodcast.com Follow us on Instagram: @theanxietysocietypod…
This special episode of The Anxiety Society Podcast brings back Evan Weinberger, founder of Staying Ahead of the Game, to answer listener questions on executive functioning. Hosts Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale and Cali Werner explore practical strategies for overcoming procrastination, building problem-solving skills, and understanding cultural influences on productivity. Evan shares insights on how parents, professionals, and students can develop systems tailored to their unique challenges. Key Points: - [0:40] - Procrastination and Productivity Hacks The hosts and Evan discuss their personal struggles with procrastination and strategies for initiating tasks when motivation is low. - [7:18] - Executive Functioning Defined Evan explains executive functioning as the brain's "air traffic control system" for managing multiple tasks, deadlines, and decisions. - [12:40] - Learned Helplessness in Families How well-meaning parents may unintentionally reinforce dependency in kids, limiting their executive functioning growth. - [20:45] - Teaching Problem-Solving Skills Evan shares how failure and natural consequences can help children and employees develop better problem-solving abilities. - [30:15] - Cultural Influences on Executive Functioning A fascinating discussion on how cultural norms, such as attitudes toward punctuality or politeness, shape perceptions of productivity. Quotable Moments: [7:35] "Executive functioning is like the brain’s air traffic control system—it keeps all the planes from crashing." - Evan Weinberger [20:20] "We don’t learn from our successes; we grow from our failures." - Evan Weinberger [33:18] "Your system might work for you, but it might not work for everyone else—and that’s okay." - Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale Links Mentioned: Staying Ahead of the Game: https://saotg.com/ Harvard Center on the Developing Child: https://developingchild.harvard.edu The Anxiety Society Podcast: https://www.anxietysocietypodcast.com This episode is packed with actionable tips for tackling executive functioning challenges. Whether you're a parent looking to support your child, a professional navigating workplace demands, or someone working on personal growth, there’s something here for you. Share this episode with someone who might benefit, and don’t forget to leave a review to help others find The Anxiety Society Podcast.…

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In this episode of The Anxiety Society Podcast, hosts Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale and Cali Werner sit down with Evan Weinberger, an expert in executive functioning. Together, they explore the essentials of executive functioning skills—what they are, why they matter, and how to develop them. Evan shares practical strategies for improving organization, time management, and self-presentation while reflecting on personal and professional anecdotes that highlight the importance of building effective systems. Key Points: - [0:08] - Introduction to Anxiety and Executive Functioning Dr McIngvale and Cali kick off the episode discussing how executive functioning skills are vital for managing anxiety and staying productive. - [2:10] - Meet Evan Weinberger Evan shares his unique journey from studying psychology and coaching executives to helping kids master essential life skills. - [5:44] - The Modern Attention Span Crisis Evan delves into how today's constant digital stimulation impacts our attention spans and executive functioning. - [25:08] - The Role of Transitions in Executive Functioning Why life changes like becoming a parent or transitioning to college can disrupt systems—and how to adapt. - [45:03] - Teaching Kids Early Habits Practical tips for parents to model and teach organizational routines to children. - [1:00:15] - Building Systems That Work for You Evan emphasizes the importance of finding personalized systems for managing time, tasks, and impressions. Quotable Moments: [5:10] "The hardest part of school isn't the material—it's juggling everything without letting the balls fall." - Evan Weinberger [27:14] "Transitions bring turbulence, but they also push us to build better systems." - Evan Weinberger [45:46] "Modeling is the most powerful way to teach—your kids are always watching." - Evan Weinberger Links Mentioned: The Anxiety Society: https://www.anxietysocietypodcast.com/ Staying Ahead of the Game: https://saotg.com/ The Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University: https://developingchild.harvard.edu/ Stephen Covey’s The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: https://a.co/d/aUoeV3y Evan inspires us to rethink our relationship with organization and productivity. Whether you’re a student, parent, or professional, improving your executive functioning can lead to a more balanced, efficient life. Don’t forget to subscribe, share this episode, and leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform. For more resources, visit our website or follow us on social media.…
In this Q&A episode of The Anxiety Society Podcast, hosts Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale and Cali Werner tackle listener questions about anxiety's root causes, diagnosis, and treatment. From understanding the differences between generalized anxiety and OCD to exploring the challenges of cultural stigma, this episode is packed with actionable advice and expert insights. Plus, a teaser for a future episode on parenting anxieties! Key Points: - [0:25] - Embracing Listener Questions Why Q&A episodes foster real-world conversations and encourage audience engagement. - [3:00] - Personal Anxious Moments Carly and Elizabeth share recent experiences, including road rage incidents and wedding social fatigue. - [6:00] - Understanding Anxiety’s Roots Anxiety often stems from the fear of uncertainty and societal pressures for immediacy and certainty. - [11:10] - How to Get Diagnosed with Anxiety The difference between full psychological assessments and clinical diagnoses through therapy. - [15:00] - Types of Anxiety Disorders A breakdown of common conditions like OCD, generalized anxiety, social anxiety, and phobias. - [20:02] - Cultural and Societal Influences on Anxiety How cultural norms, stigma, and socioeconomic factors shape anxiety experiences and treatment access. - [24:15] - Managing Anxiety-Inducing Situations Tips for addressing triggers in everyday life, such as work stress, relationship conflicts, and public speaking fears. - [28:40] - Anxiety Treatment Misconceptions Debunking myths about quick fixes and highlighting the importance of evidence-based cognitive behavioral therapy. - [32:10] - The Role of Self-Compassion in Anxiety Management How being kind to yourself can reduce the intensity of anxious feelings and improve resilience. - [37:20] - Parenting and Anxiety A sneak peek into how parental anxiety impacts children, with a promise of a deeper dive in the next episode. Quotable Moments: [6:35] "Anxiety latches onto what matters to us most—our values, our goals, our loved ones." - Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale [11:50] "A psych assessment is like a full diagnostic roadmap; therapy is your car on the journey to healing." - Carly Werner [29:40] "Treatment for anxiety isn't about getting rid of it—it's about changing your relationship with it." - Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale Links Mentioned: Anxiety Society Podcast - Submit a Question: https://www.anxietysocietypodcast.com National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH): https://www.nimh.nih.gov John Hirschfeld’s Book on Mindfulness for OCD: https://a.co/d/8THN7M1 Thanks for tuning in to this special Q&A episode! Keep submitting your questions at our website to be featured in upcoming episodes. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and follow us on Instagram at @theanxietysocietypod. Together, we can transform how we navigate anxiety.…
In this episode of The Anxiety Society Podcast, Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale and Cali Werner are joined by the dynamic Deborah Duncan, host of Great Day Houston. Deborah shares her inspiring journey through adversity, reflecting on personal growth, resilience, and leadership. Together, they explore the role of anxiety in shaping our responses to challenges, discuss the importance of embracing failure, and reveal how we can turn life’s obstacles into opportunities for growth. Key Points: - [0:40] - Introducing Deborah Duncan Deborah recounts her career journey, including her time as a news anchor and talk show host, and how life’s challenges shaped her path. - [6:02] - Anxious Moments and Public Life A hilarious and poignant start: Deborah’s Halloween mishap and a reflective discussion on managing anxiety in public roles. - [10:50] - The Power of Failure and Resilience How childhood struggles with math and an empathetic teacher taught Deborah the importance of persistence and asking for help. - [20:30] - Navigating Workplace Challenges Deborah opens up about workplace adversities, the lessons they taught her, and how they prepared her for greater opportunities. - [30:45] - The Cost of Overprotection A candid conversation about how shielding younger generations from adversity can hinder growth and resilience. - [40:20] - Leadership and Constructive Feedback Deborah shares her approach to coaching employees, balancing humor, compassion, and accountability to foster growth. - [48:12] - Failure as a Stepping Stone Insights into reframing failure as a natural part of growth, and how to use it to propel you toward success. Quotable Moments: [10:55] "Failure isn’t the end—it’s the clearing for what’s next." - Deborah Duncan [30:47] "We’ve done a disservice by shielding people from adversity; it’s the struggle that builds strength." - Cali Werner [48:15] "The alligator eats the most! It’s about finding the way you learn best." - Deborah Duncan Links Mentioned: Great Day Houston: https://www.greatdayhouston.com What Happened to You? by Dr. Bruce Perry and Oprah Winfrey: https://a.co/d/7hxRLsk The Anxiety Society Podcast: https://www.anxietysocietypodcast.com Deborah Duncan’s story is a testament to the power of resilience and perspective. By embracing adversity and reframing failure, we can all grow stronger. Don’t forget to subscribe, share the episode with friends, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform.…
In this thought-provoking episode of the Anxiety Society podcast, hosts Cali Werner and Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale, tackle the underlying fears driving anxiety. Listen in as they dive deep into the concept of core fears—the hidden drivers behind anxiety that shape behaviors and emotions. Through personal stories and candid conversations, they explore how core fears manifest in our daily lives, from health concerns to relationship struggles Key Points: - [0:01] - Defining Core Fears The hosts introduce the concept of core fears—fundamental anxieties that shape our decisions and emotions—and discuss how understanding them can lead to meaningful change. - [15:00] - Health, Diet, and Anxiety Personal stories and discussions around how health concerns and modern diets contribute to anxiety, with a focus on finding balance and making realistic changes. - [25:00] - How Core Fears Impact Behavior Using examples like fear of abandonment and fear of responsibility, the hosts break down how core fears drive anxiety responses in daily life. - [30:00] - Addressing Intrusive Thoughts and Irrational Fears Jon Hershfield explains the role of intrusive thoughts in anxiety disorders and offers tools for tackling them through mindfulness and CBT. - [35:00] - Taking Action Against Anxiety The team provides a roadmap for overcoming anxiety by identifying triggers, confronting fears, and embracing uncertainty for long-term growth. Quotable Moments: - [5:30] "Anxiety isn't just something we feel—it's a lens that colors how we see the world. And that lens is often shaped by our core fears." - Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale - [22:45] "Real change happens when you stop treating the symptoms of anxiety and start digging into its roots." - Cali Werner - [34:00] "Freedom lies not in eliminating uncertainty, but in learning to live with it." - Jon Hershfield Links Mentioned: - Podcast Instagram: [@TheAnxietySocietyPod: https://instagram.com/TheAnxietySocietyPod Thank you for joining us on this insightful episode of the Anxiety Society podcast! Dive deeper into these discussions by subscribing to the show, or leaving a review. Mentioned in this episode: World Class Treatment For A Worldwide Need The OCD Institute of Texas provides compassionate individualized treatment for anxiety, OCD and related disorders with a diverse team of dedicated specialists.…
In this episode of the Anxiety Society podcast, hosts Cali Werner and Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale are joined by Jon Hershfield, MFT, the Director of The Center for OCD and Anxiety, for a compelling discussion on the rise of anxiety in today’s world. Together, they dive into the uncomfortable truths about how anxiety takes root in our daily lives and uncover actionable strategies to break its hold. From the transformative power of mindfulness to the life-changing tools of dialectical behavior therapy ( DBT). This episode offers fresh perspectives and practical insights for anyone ready to reclaim their peace of mind and live a more empowered life. Don’t miss this eye-opening conversation! Key Points: [0:00] - Introduction to Anxiety Society Podcast Cali and Dr. McIngvale introduce the Anxiety Society podcast, sharing their mission to dive deep into the topics surrounding anxiety in an honest and raw way. [4:00] - The Rise of Anxiety in Society The hosts discuss how society's collective anxiety has escalated, offering insight into how and why anxiety has become so pervasive. [4:14] - What is DBT? Jon H. explains the principles of Dialectical Behavior Therapy and how it integrates mindfulness. [13:00] - Breaking Free from Anxiety's Grip Cali and Dr. McIngvale delve into actionable steps to overcome anxiety, emphasizing the importance of shifting perspectives and tackling it head-on. [20:00] - The Role of Mindfulness in Managing Anxiety Mindfulness techniques are explored as a practical tool to manage and reduce anxiety symptoms. [27:05] - Mindfulness Practices for Anxiety Practical mindfulness strategies from DBT that listeners can apply immediately. [39:32] - Breaking Down Common Myths Addressing misconceptions about mindfulness and its role in anxiety treatment. [30:00] - Dealing with Anxiety Triggers The conversation shifts to understanding specific triggers of anxiety and strategies for managing them in daily life. [52:21] - Final Thoughts and Resources Wrapping up with actionable advice and an invitation to explore additional resources on the podcast website. Quotable Moments: - [4:30] "We are not just talking about anxiety, we are living it, and that’s where the real conversation begins." - Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale - [13:30] "Anxiety isn't something we can simply 'fix.' It's about learning how to coexist with it, to understand it, and ultimately to change our relationship with it." - Cali Werner - [30:45] "Mindfulness gives us the ability to pause, to breathe, and to regain control in the midst of our most anxious moments." - Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale Links Mentioned: -Shepherd Pratt: https://www.sheppardpratt.org/why-sheppard-pratt/our-experts/details/jon-hershfield-mft/ - Website: [Anxiety Society Podcast: https://anxietysocietypodcast.com - Instagram: [@TheAnxietySocietyPod: https://instagram.com/TheAnxietySocietyPod Thank you for tuning into this powerful episode of the Anxiety Society podcast. If you found these insights helpful, please subscribe to the podcast on your favorite platform and leave a review to help others find this message. Mentioned in this episode: World Class Treatment For A Worldwide Need The OCD Institute of Texas provides compassionate individualized treatment for anxiety, OCD and related disorders with a diverse team of dedicated specialists.…
In this heartfelt episode of the Anxiety Society podcast, host Cali Werner dives into the complexities of grief with guest Megan Jarvis, a trauma-trained psychotherapist, podcast host and author. They discuss the interplay between grief and anxiety, the importance of learning to "live with loss," and practical tools for managing grief during the holiday season. Megan shares her personal journey with grief and explains how understanding the body's response to trauma can help us navigate profound loss. Key Points: [0:06] - Welcome to The Anxiety Society Podcast The mission of the podcast and welcoming Megan Jarvis for an important discussion about grief. [0:57] - Anxious Moments of the Week Cali and Megan reflect on their anxiety triggers, from holiday chaos to public speaking mishaps, highlighting the universal challenges of managing mental health. [8:27] - Megan's Journey into Grief Therapy Megan shares her personal story of childhood trauma, how it shaped her anxiety, and her eventual path to becoming a trauma therapist. [15:00] - The Intersection of Grief and Anxiety Insightful conversation on how grief triggers anxiety, why we react as we do, and tools like EMDR that help regulate our responses. [34:22] - Tips for Grieving During the Holidays Megan introduces strategies like the "Triangle of Trust" and mindfulness techniques to stay present and manage grief in emotionally charged situations. [47:06] - Redefining the New Normal Megan challenges cultural norms around grief and shares her vision for a more educated, compassionate approach to handling loss. Quotable Moments: [4:57] "If you want to know the answer to anxiety, it’s being okay with good enough." — Megan Jarvis [34:29] "Instead of avoiding pain, ask: how can I be present for whatever comes up?" — Megan Jarvis [47:43] "Grief isn’t about letting go; it’s learning to live with the loss." — Megan Jarvis Links Mentioned: - Megan Jarvis’s Website: https://meghanriordanjarvis.com/ - Grief is My Side Hustle Podcast: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grief-is-my-side-hustle/id1568936089 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4tKoHpy88JWZEhPz0gREkY - Book: Can Anyone Tell Me? Essential Questions About Grief and Loss by Megan Jarvis https://meghanriordanjarvis.com/ Grief is a universal experience that often intersects with anxiety, and this episode provides practical tools and validation for those navigating loss. As you listen, remember that there's no "right way" to grieve—it’s about showing up for yourself and others with compassion and understanding. Stay connected with us: Subscribe, leave a review, and follow us on Instagram @TheAnxietySocietyPod. Together, we can transform the conversation around anxiety and grief. Mentioned in this episode: World Class Treatment For A Worldwide Need The OCD Institute of Texas provides compassionate individualized treatment for anxiety, OCD and related disorders with a diverse team of dedicated specialists.…
In this episode of The Anxiety Society Podcast, Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale and Cali Werner share their personal journeys with anxiety and how it has shaped their professional paths. The duo dive into the roots of anxiety, societal impacts, and transformative strategies to regain control over our lives. This raw, unfiltered conversation aims to empower listeners to challenge their perceptions of anxiety and take steps toward freedom and self-discovery. Key Points: [0:00] - Welcome to The Anxiety Society Podcast Dr. McConville and Carly Werner talk about the podcast, sharing their mission to explore anxiety in all its facets and offer fresh perspectives on overcoming it. [0:06] - The Anxiety Epidemic A discussion on how anxiety became such a defining part of modern society and how it continues to grow. [0:33] - Real, Raw, and Unfiltered The hosts outline their vision for a podcast that pushes boundaries, embraces discomfort, and sparks meaningful change in how we view anxiety. [5:15] - The Personal Side of Anxiety Both hosts share their personal journeys with anxiety, offering relatable and heartfelt stories to connect with listeners. [10:45] - Anxiety’s Role in Society An exploration of how societal pressures, social media, and cultural norms contribute to heightened anxiety levels. [15:30] - Redefining the Conversation The importance of shifting the narrative around anxiety from shame and stigma to one of empowerment and understanding. [19:50] - Practical Tools for Managing Anxiety Actionable tips and strategies to help listeners reduce anxiety in their everyday lives. [22:10] - The Power of Community How building a supportive network can create a safe space for open dialogue and shared healing. [25:45] - Breaking the Cycle A deep dive into how individuals and society as a whole can stop perpetuating anxiety and start creating change. [29:57] - Stay Connected Resources and ways to engage with The Anxiety Society Podcast community are shared, including their website and Instagram. Quotable Moments: [10:45] “Anxiety thrives in silence. The more we talk about it, the less power it has over us.” - Cali Werner [19:50] “Managing anxiety isn’t about eliminating it; it’s about learning to live with it and thrive despite it.” - Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale [25:45] “Breaking the cycle of anxiety begins with challenging the stories we tell ourselves.” - Cali Werner Links Mentioned: - The Anxiety Society Podcast Website: https://www.anxietysocietypodcast.com - Instagram: @theanxietysocietypod: https://www.instagram.com/theanxietysocietypod Follow us at anxietysocietypodcast.com for continued insights, resources, and support. Subscribe to the podcast, leave a review, and follow them on social media to stay connected and part of this journey to redefine the conversation around anxiety. Mentioned in this episode: World Class Treatment For A Worldwide Need The OCD Institute of Texas provides compassionate individualized treatment for anxiety, OCD and related disorders with a diverse team of dedicated specialists.…
In this episode, Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale and Cali Werner tackle the ways loved ones can unintentionally fuel anxiety by accommodating it. They delve into practical, evidence-based strategies for reducing anxiety-supportive behaviors, enabling both individuals and their families to regain control and live more fully. The hosts share personal stories and expert advice on navigating common struggles like reassurance-seeking, understanding anxiety's ego-dystonic nature, and how to communicate boundaries. Whether you’re managing anxiety or supporting someone who is, this episode offers invaluable insight into creating a balanced and empowered life. Key Points: - [0:06] - Introduction and Purpose of The Anxiety Society Dr. Elizabeth and Cali introduce the show, focusing on anxiety’s societal impact and the journey to change our relationship with it. - [9:30] - Debunking the “Understanding” Myth They explain why it’s unnecessary—and even unhelpful—for loved ones to fully understand anxiety in order to support someone effectively. - [11:59] - Accommodating Behaviors: Help or Harm? Insight on how accommodating someone’s anxiety can reinforce it, often sending unintended messages of fragility and incapacity. - [18:19] - Setting Supportive Boundaries Discussion on setting healthy, pre-planned boundaries, and how to communicate these changes in a calm, supportive way. - [27:15] - Goal-Oriented Accommodations Examples of how to use temporary, goal-oriented accommodations to gradually build resilience without reinforcing anxious behaviors. - [35:45] - Living by Values, Not Anxiety Advice on aligning daily actions with personal values instead of anxiety-driven responses to create meaningful change. Quotable Moments: - [9:00] - "The goal isn’t for loved ones to ‘get’ your anxiety—it’s for you to trust that you can handle it." — Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale - [18:55] - "When we support without enabling, we show anxiety who’s really in charge." — Cali Werner - [27:10] - "Accommodations are stepping stones, not permanent crutches." — Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale Links Mentioned: Anxiety Society Podcast Website: https://AnxietySocietyPodcast.com Anxiety Disorders Association of America: https://adaa.org Anxiety in the Classroom: https://anxietyintheclassroom.org If anxiety—or accommodating someone else’s—is taking a toll on your life, it’s time to build a new approach. Challenge yourself or support a loved one in reducing accommodations and reclaiming control over daily life. For more tools and insights, check out the links provided and subscribe to the podcast on your favorite platform. Don’t forget to leave a review to help us reach others on this journey toward anxiety-free living. Mentioned in this episode: World Class Treatment For A Worldwide Need The OCD Institute of Texas provides compassionate individualized treatment for anxiety, OCD and related disorders with a diverse team of dedicated specialists.…
In this holiday edition of The Anxiety Society Podcast, hosts Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale and Cali Werner dive into the stress, pressure, and blues that the festive holiday season can bring. From financial concerns to family dynamics and time management struggles, they share practical tips, reframing strategies, and personal insights to help you embrace the joy of the season without letting anxiety take the reins. Discover how boundaries, self-care, and small mindset shifts can turn holiday chaos into meaningful moments. Key Points: [0:00] Introduction to Holiday Stress A look at why the holidays can be as anxiety-inducing as they are festive. [2:18] The Power of Boundaries Practical strategies for setting boundaries and maintaining your sanity amidst holiday obligations. [8:45] Managing Triggers and Family Conflicts Tools to prepare for and respond to challenging family dynamics during festive gatherings. [16:27] Financial and Time Pressures Tips for managing financial stress and juggling the endless holiday to-do list. [28:31] Coping with Loneliness and Grief How to navigate the holiday blues, grief, and isolation while staying connected. [37:32] Self-Care and Setting Realistic Expectations Balancing personal health, holiday preparations, and enjoying the present moment. Quotable Moments: [4:12] “Holidays are meant for joy, but they can only be joyful if you set boundaries that protect your peace.” – Dr. McIngvale [19:03] “You can feel anxious and joyful simultaneously. Anxiety doesn’t have to define your holiday experience.” – Cali Werner [36:40] “Boundaries set ahead of time are kindness to yourself and to others—they prevent the chaos before it starts.” – Dr. McIngvale Links Mentioned: American Psychological Association – For holiday stress statistics and mental health resources. The Anxiety Society Podcast: anxietysocietypodcast.com Follow on Instagram: @theanxietysocietypod The holiday season can be overwhelming, but with boundaries, self-care, and thoughtful planning, it can also be a time of joy and connection. Share your holiday goals with us at anxietysocietypodcast.com, and tune in next time for more insights. Don’t forget to follow, subscribe, and leave a review to help us reach others who may benefit from our message! Mentioned in this episode: World Class Treatment For A Worldwide Need The OCD Institute of Texas provides compassionate individualized treatment for anxiety, OCD and related disorders with a diverse team of dedicated specialists.…
In this episode, Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale and Cali Werner tackle the difficult topic of how we avoid anxiety through escapist behaviors and quick fixes. They discuss how ignoring or avoiding distress only strengthens anxiety and provide practical strategies for leaning into discomfort, facing it head-on, and ultimately living a life driven by values instead of fear. Tune in to hear about the dangers of relying on quick fixes like CBD gummies and other fads, and how to embrace the uncomfortable journey toward long-lasting change. Key Points: [0:00] - Introduction and Welcome The hosts introduce the concept of running from anxiety and why it's critical to face discomfort head-on rather than avoiding it. [1:21] - The Price of Avoidance Elizabeth and Cali talk about how avoidance behaviors, like ignoring tough conversations or emotions, keep people stuck in anxiety. [5:38] - The Appeal of Quick Fixes A deep dive into how quick fixes, such as CBD gummies and fad diets, promise relief but ultimately reinforce anxiety and make it worse. [16:03] - Restlessness and Overworking How behaviors like compulsive overworking and restlessness can be ways to avoid facing anxiety, and why slowing down is crucial for healing. [19:06] - The Power of Sitting in Discomfort The hosts discuss how learning to sit with discomfort, rather than fleeing from it, is key to managing anxiety. They share personal stories and client examples of this transformative process. [28:52] - Values-Based Living What does it mean to live by your values instead of anxiety? Elizabeth and Cali share insights into how aligning your actions with your values can lead to a more fulfilling and anxiety-free life. Quotable Moments: [1:50] “If something makes you uncomfortable, that’s a signal you’re growing. Don’t run from it, sit with it.” - Cali Werner [28:52] "Living by your values means doing what matters to you, not what your anxiety demands." - Dr. Elizabeth MacIngvale [22:53] “There’s no quick fix. The hard work of confronting anxiety is the only way to truly move forward.” - Dr. Elizabeth MacIngvale Links Mentioned: Anxiety Society Podcast Website: http://anxietysocietypodcast.com Instagram: @AnxietySocietyPod Book: Sacred Rhythm by Ruth Gayle Barton: https://a.co/d/543RKdj Facing your anxiety head-on is challenging, but avoiding it only gives it more power. Begin leaning into discomfort and making small changes today by setting values-based goals that align with what truly matters to you. Share your thoughts with us on our website or Instagram, and subscribe to stay updated on future episodes as we dive deeper into mental health topics. Mentioned in this episode: World Class Treatment For A Worldwide Need The OCD Institute of Texas provides compassionate individualized treatment for anxiety, OCD and related disorders with a diverse team of dedicated specialists.…
In this episode of The Anxiety Society podcast, Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale and Cali Werner dive into the pervasive issue of people-pleasing. With personal stories and professional insight, they explore the impact of prioritizing others' needs over your own and the internal conflict it creates. They offer practical strategies for recognizing when you're caught in the people-pleasing trap and discuss how setting healthy boundaries can preserve your energy, strengthen your relationships, and protect your sense of self. Whether you’re a “yes” person or find yourself avoiding conflict at all costs, this episode reveals how to honor your needs without guilt. Key Points: - [0:01] - Introduction to People-Pleasing Dr. Elizabeth and Cali introduce the topic and discuss how people-pleasing often results from anxiety and a desire to avoid conflict. - [5:20] - The Catch-22 of Social Media They examine the common scenario of withholding moments from social media out of fear of upsetting others and the guilt that follows. - [12:45] - Boundaries and Self-Awareness Insight on the need for boundaries, particularly with close family and friends, and recognizing the warning signs of overextending yourself. - [24:15] - How to Set Boundaries Without Guilt Cali shares practical steps for setting boundaries empathetically, emphasizing the power of open communication. - [34:30] - Why People-Pleasing Hurts Self-Identity The hosts explore how over-accommodating can erode your sense of self and lead to resentment and burnout. - [42:00] - Taking Back Your Time Dr. Elizabeth discusses time as a precious resource, advocating for mindful choices that reflect your values over social obligations. Quotable Moments: - [0:02:02] - "I often say I don't want feedback right now. But then I wonder, do I want to improve or just feel comfortable?" — Cali Werner - [12:10] - "People-pleasing keeps you stuck. It's not just exhausting; it chips away at who you really are." — Dr. Elizabeth McIngvale - [42:30] - "The most valuable gift you have is your time. Spend it on what fulfills you, not just what fills others' expectations." — Cali Werner Links Mentioned: Anxiety Society Podcast Website: https://AnxietySocietyPodcast.com If people-pleasing is holding you back, it’s time to recognize how it impacts your well-being and reclaim your sense of self. Embrace this opportunity to set boundaries and make choices that reflect your true values. Visit the podcast website to submit questions or join the community on Instagram. Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review to support the show and reach others on similar journeys. Mentioned in this episode: World Class Treatment For A Worldwide Need The OCD Institute of Texas provides compassionate individualized treatment for anxiety, OCD and related disorders with a diverse team of dedicated specialists.…
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