Victim Mentality | Episode #13

The Divorce Reset

What's your reaction when you see that someone is "playing the victim"? It's often easier to see in other people than ourselves.
Most of us at different points in our lives may have slipped into this common pattern. While some of us may have been victimized at some point in our lives, we can use the feelings we experienced then to re-create suffering now.
Victim mentality pretends to be useful and true, but is hurting you more than anyone. Today, I’ll explain what victim mentality really is and all the various ways it shows up. It can seem very justified, but it can cause all kinds of unnecessary and continual pain and suffering.
As you step into this new chapter of your life, I want to share some steps on how we can both recognize and avoid the victim mentality in order to create greater FREEDOM in your life.
If you've ever thought, "life is against me" then this episode is for you! Tune into to learn how to step into a new and more powerful version of yourself.
If you are a survivor of domestic violence or abuse, please don't brush past that by thinking that you just have victim mentality. Here are resources for victims and survivors of domestic violence and more information on recognizing the signs of abuse and the dynamics of an abusive relationship.

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