Do you find yourself avoiding conflict in your relationships? Do you perhaps find yourself avoiding relationships altogether? In today's video, Dr. K talks with Dr. Kirk Honda, as they discuss what avoidance is, and how to deal with it in every day life! Check out more mental health resources here! https://bit.ly/3xsk6fE Learn more about your ad ch…

Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Insecurity & cheating 22:12 What does Dr. Kirk think of Astoria, OR? 23:22 Why haven't we had luck with a couples therapist? 32:33 What is the cost of children diffusing fami…

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about marital conflict and Gottman's Four Horsemen. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email:…

Dr Kirk answers patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 What is Dr. Kirk's model of supervision? 02:07 How do I tell a friend that I have a life-threatening condition? 08:43 Dependent personality spectrum 12:18 Why do I want to cheat? 20:35 OPP 2…

Dr Kirk talks about online bullying and dealing with negative comments. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Intro 01:56 Who Trolled Amber? 07:36 Cancellation trauma 24:17 Negative online feedback 47:57 Online mob mentality & balancing feedback Become a memb…

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with coaching trainer Mike Bundrant about the difference between coaching and counseling. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.…

Dr K (HealthyGamer) interviews Dr Kirk Honda about avoidant and schizoid personality disorder. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing HealthyGamer 06:11 Collaboration intro 13:19 What is a personality disorder? 15:51 What happens in avoidant person…

[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda talks about therapist difficulties. (Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://…

Dr Kirk discovers he has dyslexia. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Dr. Kirk's dyslexia 05:07 Reading slowly 33:43 Visual & audio media 53:11 International Dyslexia Association screener criteria 1:10:19 Reading aloud 1:19:42 AP English 1:28:38 Final crit…

Dr Kirk and Humberto answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 What is online cheating? 17:02 Compulsive porn use 23:54 TW Sexual abuse 26:33 What is The Ick 49:46 Walkaway Wife Syndrome 1:07:18 Is asking for a sexless relationship possible?…

[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto analyze the main character in Nightcrawler regarding psychopathic and sadistic personality. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: http…

Do you or a loved one find it difficult to explore and discuss emotions? Do discussions about emotions often lead to fighting or outbursts? In today's video, Dr K. discusses what emotional availability is, how to cultivate it, and how to manifest it in a healthy way. Check out more mental health resources here! https://bit.ly/3xsk6fE Learn more abo…

Dr Kirk and Humberto discuss the psychological model proposed in Inside Out 2. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Witnessing childhood 10:06 Transitionary periods 24:18 Stable personality points 36:17 Anxiety vs. Fear 1:03:01 Sense of self & schemas 1:39:4…

[Rerun] What do you do when you have feelings for your therapist? Falling in love? Wanting to be adopted? Dr. Kirk Honda answers a number of emails on this topic. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP…

In today's episode, Dr. K talks with Dantes, a League of Legends creator, about the pressures of streaming and his struggles offline. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoicesKirjoittanut Pickaxe

Kids or no kids? How do we decide? Dr Kirk interviews fellow therapist Jess Flynn about her decision to not have children. Jess Flynn can be found at: https://jess-flynn-therapy.clientsecure.me/ This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing Jesamie & mort…

Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob review a case in which a therapist was convicted of fraud. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Relational therapist fraud 06:43 Bob's bathroom remodel 08:35 Moving from therapy to coaching 28:01 "Misleading wording" 34:57 Conviction…

[Rerun] Bob tells us about how to use emotionally focused therapy to help clients recover from past relational traumas and Dr. Kirk rambles about random stuff. Is EFIT similar to Gestalt? Is the EFIT training worth it? Let’s find out. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first…

In today's episode, Dr K. discusses why people feel the need to lie and manipulate, and how you can prepare yourself emotionally to defend against it. Check out more mental health resources here! https://bit.ly/3xsk6fE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoicesKirjoittanut Pickaxe

Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Mormon therapist discomfort 08:43 Rebbeca-sode gifts 14:19 Menopause & aging health 35:10 How to prepare for parenting 47:20 Is daycare harmful? 1:11:40 Compassion fa…

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about how to use social media to build an audience and enhance your clinical practice. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.pat…

Dr. Kirk Honda interviews Dr. Jordan Allen, associate professor at Utah Valley University, about communication and other topics. Dr. Jordan Allen can be found at @CommunicationCrackdown on Instagram and TikTok. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducin…

Antioch Student, Andres Valdivieso, asks Dr Kirk about advice for grad school and novice clinicians. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Introducing Andres03:10 Dr. Kirk's top 3 graduate school tips 33:46 Learning in graduate school 42:20 Why did Dr. Kirk g…

I had the pleasure of engaging in a conversation with XQC diving deep into various subjects such as coping mechanisms, attachment styles, and navigating chaos. Join us as we explore these intriguing topics, offering insights and perspectives that delve into the complexities of managing emotions, relationships, and the tumultuous nature of life. Che…

[Rerun] Are humans naturally monogamous? What about other primates? What does the data tells us? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto discuss the science and the culture. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2…